A Combinatorial Problem on Extremal Set Theory
Did you want some condition to make $\mathcal{F}$ a large collection? Because the current definition allows for the following, presumably trivial, case. Consider $\mathcal{F}=\{S_1,S_2\}$, where $S_1=[n/2]$ and $S_2=[n]\setminus S_1$. Then we can take $a=n/2$, $b=n$, $c=n/2$.