Density of Ramsey Graphs
The answer to your question is yes. It is a result of Erdős and Szemerédi from 1972. We know a little, but non-zero about pseudo-random properties of Ramsey graphs. For example, we know that many different kinds of induced subgraphs appear in such a graph. See, for example, a paper by Alon–Balogh–Kostochka–Samotij and references therein.