Two preorders with same glb
I'd say no. Consider the following example. Let $(A,\land)$ and $(B,\land)$ be two unrelated semilattices. Let $(S,\land)$ be their direct product, and put $(a,b)\le_1(a',b')$ iff $a\le a'$, $(a,b)\le_2(a',b')$ iff $b\le b'$. Then your conditions are satisfied, even though the two preorders look nothing like each other.