How to find max flow in a graph after decrementing an edge capacity?
If the capacity of edge $c(e') \ge f(e') + 1$ i.e. the max flow remains the same, there is no chance max flow increase, as it would increased without decreasing $c(e')$.

Suppose that $c(e') = f(e')$ (this edge is saturated) and we decrease the capacity in $1$ unit. You need to remove one unit of flow from $s$ to $t$ that goes through edge $e'$. Let say that $e'= (u,v)$. 

Removing flow: Just run two BFS, one starting from $s$ to $u$ going through edges that has flow greater that $0$, the other from $v$ to $t$ equally from edges that has flow greater than $0$. (It is guaranteed you will reach your goal in both cases since there is a unit of flow traversing this edge). Select a path from $s$ to $u$ and remove $1$ unit of flow from each edge and do the same with a path from $v$ to $t$. Complexity: $O(|V| + |E|)$

Recover max flow: Now we have a valid flow network but not necessarily the network with max flow. So now you just need to run one iteration of augmenting path with the capacity of edge $e'$ reduced. (Just like running one iteration of Ford-Fulkerson algorithm) Running just one iteration has the complexity of a single DFS which is $O(|V| + |E|)$.

Overall complexity of this approach would be $O(|V| + |E|)$ which is linear in the amount of nodes and edges.