What are the hardest problems that are in P if and only if P=NP?
Well, here is a trivial example of a problem.

Inputs: a program P, an input x
Desired output: if P=NP, output "sweet!", else if P halts on x output "halts", else output "doesn't halt"

If P=NP, then this problem is in P.  If P$\ne$NP, then this problem is very hard (it's undecidable).

I realize this might not be what you're looking for; if so, perhaps it illustrates just how tricky it is to specify properties of this sort.