DFAs that must reach a certain state at least once
If it happened that $F \{r\}$, then that would also happen to be a DFA to which you wouldn't have to do anything to answer the question, but it doesn't cover the case where $r \notin F$.

To rephrase the question a little, imagine you have a DFA $M$ that accepts language $L$, and someone picks a random state $r\neq s_{0}$, can you construct a DFA $M'$ that accepts language $L' \subseteq L$ where $s \in L'$ if it's in $L$ and it makes $M$ use state $r$?

Note that you don't get to pick $r$, it's essentially given as part of the input.

Taking it a little beyond your question, the answer is yes, it's possible, the trick is to do something special when you reach $r$.

A slightly more direct hint:


   Make a copy of $M$'s states (including accept status), cancel the accept status of any original states, and change the transitions out of $r$ to point to the counterparts in the duplicated set.