Numerical Approximation in Java
You are asking how to solve $e^{ax^2}=b$ for $x$, given constants $a,b$.  The solution is $x=\sqrt{\frac{1}{a} \log b}$, which can be computed (approximately) using standard algorithms for computing the log and the square root.

In particular, your specific equation has the solution

$$m = \sqrt{2s^2 \log (a/(\sqrt{2\pi} hs))}.$$

You can verify the correctness of this solution by plugging into the equation and verifying it works.