Fathersday - how would a western disciple of the Buddha make use of this fest?
My father is dead but I try to go the extra mile and help--really help my eldest uncle and those closest to my father in ways that I can whether it is:


psychologically and emotionally supportive by giving happy thoughts and emotions and not supporting negativity
virtually supportive (I work in IT so I know most things that are useful) by setting up phone, accounts, etc.
reminisce about my father's good qualities and actions frequently with family, ignoring the bad