How to get over anger at inconsiderate drivers
After 50+ years as a cyclist, this is my approach -


ride according to the conditions
ride in reasonable proximity to the curb
if safe, move over a little as traffic approaches
know where I'm going, and do it assertively
if somebody honks / shouts / waves, assume that they must be a friend, or are telling me something important, so smile broadly and wave enthusiastically in return