Do individual neurons communicate with the origin of thoughts?
To give a simple answer to the first part, the feedback generally happens in circuits of at least two neurons. A synapse is generally one way, transmitting information from the presynaptic neuron's axon to the postsynaptic neuron's dendrite. I'm sure there's caveats and exceptions because biology always has that, but that's the norm. A simple feedback loop might look like this: A excites B which excites C. C inhibits A as negative feedback.

The second question relies pretty heavily on the assumption that conscious thought originates from a particular part of the brain, or that one neuron is dedicated to one concept. This doesn't seem to be true. Things like memory and thought appear to be distributed, emergent properties of several circuits and areas. They might be organized or integrated by a particular part of the brain but it's not the same as having one central executive looking at all the inputs deciding what you think. 

Think of it like a person working on an Excel spreadsheet. There's all the code for the OS, the software, the formulas in the spreadsheet. Those are all important parts of the process but the user doesn't need to see any of that. All they need to see is the end products of each process, and then they can figure out what to do with those products. So circuits and neurons can be involved in lower processing without connecting directly to the area that organizes and integrates information. Also, because higher level processes like thought are so distributed, there's likely to be multiple centers organizing/integrating information and all giving feedback to each other. Does that make sense?

Side note: I think you might be misunderstanding Dale's principle. When it says that neurons have the same chemical action at every synapse, that means they release the same neurotransmitter(s) but that doesn't mean they have to be connected the same way or that the neurotransmitter release has the same results. For example, say a neuron releases the excitatory neurotransmitter glutamate. If it synapses on another neuron that releases glutamate, that will promote excitation. But if it synapses on an inhibitory neuron that releases GABA, then exciting that neuron will actually result in inhibition.