What evolutionary reason is there for hemolytic disease?
Hemolytic disease is not a genetic disease. It is a drawback of how the immune system works. In general, the overall benefits of having the immune system as it is right now are way higher than sporadic disadvantages, like the Hemolytic disease, that is why it is not counter selected. If instead of being a rare condition it would be a common one, then I would expect it to be indeed counter selected.