Exact definition of 'convergent' and 'divergence' in cell signalling?
In my experience those terms are primarily used intracellularly, but I wouldn't argue that it is wrong to use them more broadly, it's just that essentially everything released extracellularly is going to have some level of divergence, so it makes more sense to use a separate classification scheme (i.e., endocrine/paracrine). Between cells, the terms are also used in other contexts such as the nervous system to refer to inputs from multiple neurons synapsing on one neuron (convergence), and outputs from one neuron synapsing on many targets (divergence).

Convergence just means multiple signalling pathways converging on the same target: like multiple pathways that can activate phospholipase C.

Divergence just means that one effector, which could be a protein such as a kinase or a second messenger like IP3, has multiple targets.

You are quite likely to get both convergence and divergence within any given signalling pathway. In my opinion, this is one of the ways that biology is not taught well in schools: textbooks might make it seem like convergence and divergence are these concrete, specific classifications, but they are really just descriptive terms. Phospholipase C pathways are a great example that displays both. If you are talking from the perspective of activation of phospholipase C, you are probably talking about convergence because there are so many ways to activate phospholipase C, but at the same time, if you talk from the perspective of the G protein subunit that is activating phospholipase C, that G protein probably has other targets as well, so that's divergence. And downstream of phospholipse C you have divergent effects of DAG and IP3.