Where can I get my exomes sequenced?
I will be doing my own whole genome sequencing soon. The best reputable company I've found is Veritas. For 999 dollars and at a pretty decent depth (30+ reads).  They will produce a canned report of diseases and traits similar to cheaper alternatives, but also for another $100 will provide you a complete Variant File.

My understanding is that they will only use your data after anonymization for scientific endeavors, but I still need to finish reading the fine print. See here under privacy.  Good luck!

p.s. I also would skip exome and go with WGS since the price has come down. More and more diseases and traits are being linked to variation in intergenic regions of DNA.