Updating CV with Grant Funding Awarded but not used/PI internally but not externally on grants and contracts
Just list them as honestly as you can manage.
For the first, that you were named as project director for a grant awarded to XXX (either the individual or the institution or both).
For the second that you developed and submitted a grant that was awarded, but that you left before the work was executed. If the grant was awarded to you, specifically, say that. Or say what the grant lists as your role, had you stayed.
It doesn't take a lot of words to get it right.