How to cite a working paper, preprint, or manuscript?
I'm not sure this is a better solution, but you can be cited by name (and possibly place), with the paper described as "private communication.". Include a date (29 Aug. 2018) but not the name of the manuscript.  


  Doe, J., &amp; Smith, A.. Private communication, (29 Aug. 2018). Department of Sociology, The Top University, New York.


Once the publication becomes official contact your circle with the information and an updated reference. They may be able to update their own work in some cases, depending on timing, etc. 

I'll note that it isn't impossible that the title of your work will change after review, making a more specific title obsolete.