Mandarin equivalent to 話事?
Haha, in China, at home, the woman is the absolute ruler, so try 老婆!

老板 is very commonly heard for boss. 

现在我是老板！

To be polite, you may address someone as 师傅, which is a kind of boss

Every 单位 will have a 领导, leader, boss

'boss people around' 对某人呼来唤去