Change shortcut of  in finder
Honestly, trying to individually replace any/all occurrences of the  Cmd ⌘  key with  Ctrl ⌃  is futile. 

You can globally swap the keys in System Prefs > Keyboard > Modifier Keys... but I'm not even sure I'd recommend that.  



Long term, I'd recommend, 
"Get used to it. Don't fight it."