How to create a shortcut/alias for the "NTFS for Mac" preference?
Mac OSX has two more locations where preference panes can reside:


/Library/PreferencePanes/ - This is where system wide 3rd party panes are installed. (The folder you looked in (/System/Library/PreferencePanes/) is reserved for core OS preference panes.)
~/Library/PreferencePanes/ - This is where user-specific panes are installed.


Search these two locations and if you find the NTFS for Mac preference pane there create a short cut as a link to the file.