xhost on MacOS Catalina
If XQuartz was installed previously, you have to enter the full path to xhost if the /opt/X11/bin folder wasn't added to your PATH or the system's PATH:
/opt/X11/bin/xhost


Run without any command line argument

... a message indicating whether or not access control is  currently enabled  is printed, followed by the list of those allowed to connect.  This is the only option that may be used from machines other than the controlling host.

Further help: man xhost (or man /opt/X11/share/man/man1/xhost.1 if the /opt/X11/share/man folder isn't considered by manpath).