Change the order of servers in "Connect to Server" window?
This worked for me:

Open this file in XCode: ~/Library/Preferences/com.apple.sidebarlists.plist

Look inside the favoriteservers container.  Drag the servers into your desired order.



Save the file.

Log out.

Log in.

Done.

Also!  It sure looks like you have a separate value for Name and URL there!  I haven't tried it but it certainly would be handy to have the list display human-readable values instead of stuff like afp://10.8.8.67