⌘+Tab app list filtering
Alright, so I found as program called "Witch" which may help you. It's got a free trial on the website, but it does eventually costs $14. Check it out, it's got everything you want it seems.
Website: http://manytricks.com/witch/
App Store: https://itunes.apple.com/nl/app/witch/id412485838?mt=12