Choosing a controller/drive for a bare-glass SLCD
There are some PICs with on-board LCD drivers that can handle those requirements. No doubt other micros, but the PICs are available in classic through-hole packages. 

Eg. PIC16F1902, PIC16F1933

Though personally I would prefer the PIC24xx series which is not available in through hole + LCD from what I can see. There may be some other series (eg. PIC18 or even PIC32, just do a parametric search).  

Of course using these requires programming a micro.