Solder doesn't stick wires to connectors
175C is pretty low for soldering. Low temperature lead solder ("63/37") melts around 185C, RHoS solder even melts around 250C. You also do not seem to use flux - do it. The solder flows fast and evely if the pads/pins have the right temperature. If you have problems with soldering in general check solderingguide.com, the soldering is easy comic or the tons of videos on youtube.