using 1.8V, max 40mA to switch a 12V, 70mA load (MOSFET data sheets?)
For the type of application you mention in your question you could think of an N channel MOSFET as a relay (but without isolation between contact and coil). In other words the "relay contact" is between drain and source and the "coil" is between gate and source.

In your application, the source connects to 0 volts and the gate connects to your digital control voltage. The voltage applied between gate and source turns the "relay" on and connects drain to source. As this imaginery device is equivalent to an N channel MOSFET current should only flow between drain and source.

As you apply a gate voltage the "contact" doesn't suddenly change from open to closed - it happens gradually as gate voltage increases gradually. If gate voltage increased rapidly then the "contact" resistance changes from "open" to "closed" rapidly.

Lowest contact resistance is achieved (for an N channel MOSFET) when gate voltage is highest with respect to source AND, like a normal relay, if you put too much voltage across the coil (gate to source) you will damage your MOSFET.

If you don't apply enough voltage between gate and source you get a half-on "contact" of anything between mega ohms and a few tens of ohms. You must choose a MOSFET that can near-fully turn on with your logic control voltage of 1.8 volts. This will usually mean that the gate threshold voltage in the data sheet will need to be sub 1 volt.

So, it's like a three terminal relay with coil between gate and source and contact between drain and source.