I'm looking for a resistor which can withstand high power and has a low capacitance and inductance
The old school way of doing this was to use many resistors in a series / parallel combination .Old ARRL handbooks describe this well            .Wirewound resistors were not used due to inductive effects .Carbon resistors were used when I was a toddler .Metal film resistors would be suitable .When you bunch a lot of resistors together they will not do anywhere near thier power rating .I used a small 12V computer fan to cool my bunch of thru hole phillips PR03 metal film         resistors .This worked fine for me at 3MHz .You could also try TO220 power resistors .They cost but you will not need so many of them and they easily bolt on to a heatsink just like a standard TO220 power transistor and better still the tab is isolated .