Best sensor for measuring a dynamic force
A load cell with a fast ADC and FIR filter would do the trick without any problems. You would require a trigger input to store the result at right moment. The dynamic properties is conditioned by the mechanical construction of the cell itself.  

I have experince with HBM FIT1 digital cells, where the cycles are 30k per day within the last 10 years. You can also find other manufacturers like Mettler Toledo and others. Also, you can buy only a cell and you make the ADC and your own algorithm, but I would at least read the manuals of ready-made digital cells.