Does anybody recognize this automotive connector?
Automotive companies design most of their own connectors as custom items. 

If you can't find one in the form you want, I suggest you buy the pigtail, disassemble the connector, and post pictures of the terminals - you may find a similar terminal more easily than a similar connector.

Keep in mind that the terminal is specific to the connector specifically, and not just the connector design.  It's possible that if you disassemble the original connector, and a check pigtail connector the terminals will be different.

If you do need to buy more than a few of these without the connected wires, then use alibaba or a similar parts search engine to find companies that make them, and get a quote.  You might find exactly what you need as a pigtail, and they may be able to supply you with the connector parts rather than an assembled version.