How are manually and electromechanically actuatable switches called?
There do exist "remote-reset rocker switches". For example, this one from Japan-based manufacturer Omron. 



It's not quite what you are asking for in the question because it can only be turned "off" with the coil, but perhaps it is what you have. Of course the time-out pulse would have to be generated by an external circuit in the case of this particular switch.