Is there any way to use industrial sized IC's package in home project?
BGA is mighty hard, even for non-home operations. I can't think of any way you'd solder them without a reflow process, and without good equipment and a way to inspect them, you'd probably just destroy a lot of parts. There are some sockets available, but they aren't particularly economical.

However, other surface mount components are feasible. Adapters for various *QFP and *SOP flavors can be found which adapt the package to some .100" headers which will stick in a breadboard. It's also not impossible, with the right tools and a steady hand, to solder directly to the leads.

For the more expensive components, microcontrollers, DSPs, FPGAs and whatnot, there are most usually development or evaluation kits available which include the component in question, attached (with a socket, where feasible) to a development board with plenty of .100" headers or other accessible connectors. Just to pick an example from Mouser's front page, see this TI MSP430FR5969 LaunchPad Evaluation Kit. Of course, these are also somewhat expensive, and highly specific to a particular device.