ESP32 WROVER IB auto program not working
I was a complete idiot here because I work a bit too late and didn't notice that I was using the cts (clear to send) pin on a standard cheap ftdi module instead of the rts (ready to send) pin, since all the pins were in line on the module I thought that it was logical that rts would be placed instead of cts, I only noticed my mistake after I used an oscilloscope and noticed that the correct example signal wasn't what I was receiving on the "rts" pin side of the circuit and by chance I saw a definition stating the definition and differences between these two pins when I connected it correctly it worked instantly without any more hassle. So weeks of pulling my hair out for a stupid mistake on the easy side of things as usual thanks a lot for taking the time to post answers and push past my horrible schematics, I will try to make my schematics better next time!