Convert select / trigger coils to direct fire
I think the solution you're after is a de-multiplexer (or demux) like one of these with some buffering on the input and output to handle voltage level shifting and line driving. The select line is the 'address' and the trigger line is the 'data' which you want to route to one coil or another.

In reality, an integrated demux is only 3 gates. 1 NOT, 2 AND or not many more if you want a pure NAND implementation. So it's not saving you a great deal but i think it's the solution to the common case you're thinking about.