Is the a circuit building software that can accept a music file as the input?
If you wish to build the filters and such from components, many circuit simulators including the popular LTSpice can input and output WAV files. For example, in LTSpice and in Microcap.

However, if you do not want to define the filters with transforms or you simply want knobs to twiddle, use an audio program like Audacity (simple) or a full DAW like Reaper (free and very capable), which will let you use existing plugins or build your own plugins.