In search of a connector for EL panels
The EL wire system runs up to 120V, per IPC specs an 0.2mm or 8mil clearance should be used between traces and connector pads on the PCB with 120V (150V). In addition, 16mil should be used between coated insulation on wires.
This means any connector could be used that has an 8mil clearance between the connectors.
I like molex and JST connectors, if I am looking for a new connector the digikey paper catalog is makes it easy to compare connectors and connectors are listed by product family.