What socket and terminals do I need to buy for this plug?
I would use the Amphenol 17 way MIN-PV series housing (part number 65039-020LF):



with the appropriate crimp connector depending on size (47711-001LF for 28-32awg, 47712-001LF for 22-26awg and 47713-001LF for 18-20awg):


and if you really want to do the job properly, add the little polarising plug to the housing to match up with the missing pin (65307-001LF):