filter based on user reference
Set up the relationship. Under the Relationships section click + to add a relationship.


Under "Add relationships" you will see all fields listed.
Drop down the Groups menu and select "Content".
Locate your node reference field, for example 'Content: Reference user (field_reference_user)'. Check the box to the left of it.
Click the Add button.
Check the box labeled 'Require this relationship', and click the Update button.

Add a Contextual filter for Node ID. Set the default value -> get ID from URL
Add a field. Click + next to Fields. Under Groups, select Node, and choose Node: Title. Under Relationship, select your node reference field, e.g., Reference user, click Update.


Create a view on a node reference field will explain you in detail