Nodes they have reference to the nodes of current user
I assume you already have the view. In it under 'Advanced' add a contextual filter on Content:Author:UID. When you configure the filter select 'Provide default value' under 'When the filter value is NOT available' and set the Type to 'User ID from currently logged in user'. This will limit the display to nodes the current user created.

EDIT:

Misunderstood. If you are trying to create a list if nodes which reference the current node (eg, view displayed as a block when the page is displayed) the method is the same. Create a view of the nodes, and a Contextual filter on the Node Reference field. The default value type should then be set to 'Content ID from URL'. This will limit the list to those nodes which refer to the current node.