limiting shipping method if a specific product is selected
You are looking for how to add a condition to each of your shipping services for a specific product or two? Here's a quick animated gif that shows you the gist of what you want:



 


Locate your shipping services
Click "edit component" to control which service needs to be hidden based on a particular product
Add a condition called "Order contains a particular product"
You would need to check the "Negate" checkbox before saving to "show all the things unless this product is on the order." Which sounds like what you are attempting.


Good luck!