There are two new sheriffs in town – Identifying DJMcMego pairs!
C (gcc), 259 258 254 253 250 248 233 222 bytes


Thanks to Stan Strum for inspring a one byte golf.
Saved four bytes by juggling some variable initializations.
Saved a byte by golfing for(...;l++)b*=B[l]==-~B[l-1]; to for(...;b*=B[l]==-~B[~-l++]); (most likely relying on undefined behaviour, as it requires first evaluating B[l] followed by -~B[~-l++]).
Saved three five bytes.
Saved fifteen twenty-six bytes thanks to ceilingcat.




j,k,l,L,r,b;f(char*A,char*B){for(j=r=0;k=A[L=j];)A[j++]=-~abs(A[j]-B[j]);for(;k-L;k++)for(j=~0;L-++j;r|=!b)if(k-j)for(bcopy(B-~l,strcpy(B,A)+l,strlen(A+l)),bcopy(B+j,B-~j,L+~j),B[j]=A[k],l=b=0;B[++l];b|=B[l]+~B[~-l]);A=r;}


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Explanation (248 byte version)



j,k,l,L,r,b;                            // global variables
f(char*A,char*B){                       // function takes two strings
 for(j=r=0;A[j];L=j)                    // loop through A, compute array length L
  A[j++]=-~abs(A[j]-B[j]);              // set every entry in A to the absolute
                                        // difference of A and B at that position
                                        /* Test out all possible movements of        *
                                         * characters and see if any one             *
                                         * results in a sorted list =&gt; DJMcMego pair */
 for(j=0;j-L;j++)                       // loop through array
  for(k=~0;L-++k;r|=!b)                 // loop through array
   if(j-k){                             // j is not equal to k
    for(l=0;A[l];B[l++]=A[l]);          // copy A to B
    for(l=j;A[l];B[~-l]=B[++l]);        // shift part of B
    for(l=L;l-k;B[-~l]=B[--l]);         // shift part of B
    B[k]=A[j];                          // insert character at correct position
    for(l=b=0;B[++l];b|=B[l]+~B[~-l]);} // test if B is sorted
 A=r;}                                  // return if there was a DJMcMego pair found


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