If maximum speed was a priority for modern military fighter jets and bombers, approximately how fast would they likely be?
Increasing the speed of an aircraft results in having to make trade-offs. Drag will increase as the square of the velocity, meaning a doubling of speed will take 4x the power to achieve. This problem is compounded by the fact that it is very difficult to design an engine (and an airframe) that performs really well at super sonic speeds, while still performing well at subsonic speeds. 

All design decisions always end up in trade-offs. Increasing maneuverability generally requires doing things that will increase the drag, which means you will require more power to compensate (which then requires a larger engine, which will reduce your maneuverability due to the increased weight). 

All of these decisions mean that, in the end, increasing the speed of a fighter inevitably requires the reduction of something else, either turning speed, or weapon payload, or range. While better technology has given us more powerful engines, and new materials and alloys allow us to create more maneuverable aircraft, we've actually seen the top speeds of aircraft go down compared to past fighter aircraft, even though we could create an aircraft as fast as anything from the past, with increased maneuverability and weapon payload in comparison. 

These decisions are being made because by reducing the top speed of aircraft, they in return also get better maneuverability, so it's conscious decision to take the higher weapons payload, increased range, and higher maneuverability in place of a higher top speed because a very fast top speed is just not all that useful in warfare compared to everything else. Reconnaissance (which is what the SR-71 was designed for) is better handled by satellites, which can't be shot down in practice, and don't require flying over another country's airspace in a way that is likely to draw their ire. Bombers would rather carry a larger payload, and be fast enough to get to the target, but getting their significantly faster at the cost of a reduced payload won't buy you much. Same goes for fighters, they need to fly around somewhat quickly, but a pure speed advantage over an opponent isn't all that useful either (compared to just having a better fighter). So it's a combination of both physics and specifically what things the military values that just means that there's little value to purely increasing speed.