Do some flying techniques wear aircraft out quicker than others?
Let’s start out by agreeing that “Flight” got lots and LOTS of details very very wrong in more ways than 1 thread can list.  Any pilot who did a tiny fraction of what the “hero” does in that movie would be reported, and drug/alcohol tested, and fired, in very very short order.  Whoever decided to write a script with that sort of thing going on as its premise, has his head planted very firmly in an alternate reality to the one that the rest of us live, and fly, in.

That out of the way, let’s talk about the specific questions asked, starting with the “dramatic takeoff.”  In the military, there can be missions where “you do have to go out, you don’t have to come back” — i.e. your chances of survival may not be very good, but this is war &amp; you’re going to launch. In the airline world, the reverse is the case: takeoffs are optional, landings are mandatory.  If you don’t see the path for the whole flight being completed safely, you don’t take off. Period, dot, end of story.  There is no airline flight out there these days that is “the last flight out of Saigon” (where you’re going to attempt the takeoff because the alternative is just too awful).  If the weather around your departure airport is dangerous, then you wait until it isn’t.  If you think you’re going to need “macho maneuvers” to get out of town, you have no business taking off.

There will be times when what looked like a decent ride turns out not to be, or you knew that the ride would be somewhat bumpy &amp; things turn out to be worse.  That’s the limitation of how much information you have about the atmosphere.  And yes, you will be working to find a better ride.  However…


There is nothing particularly exciting about finding a better ride — it’s simply the same sort of climb or descent that’s used getting to and from cruise altitude. And changing course to find a better ride will be the same 20-30 degree bank turn that everything else is maneuvering the airplane. Nothing dramatic, nothing macho, nothing wild.
Also, if the unexpectedly bad ride scares the passengers, well, that’s the way things can go, but if what the PILOT is doing is scaring the passengers, then HE IS SCREWING UP!  There is essentially no scenario you can come up with where doing something that scares the passengers is the right answer.  If you got to the point where something “scary” is required to avert disaster, then either you’ve had the one-in-a-million combination of bad things happening to you, or else you screwed up by letting yourself get to that point.  (Okay, rolling inverted in the movie to control the uncontrollable pitch is in that sort of category. Could that have actually worked for the Alaska flight? No idea. But that’s how creative you have to get to come up with any sort of scenario which such crazy behavior makes sense.)


If the copilot is telling the captain that he’s flying too fast, then one of two things is going on: either the copilot doesn’t understand what is &amp; isn’t “too fast” (which can happen), or else the captain is, in fact, flying too fast.  And any captain that makes very many copilots uncomfortable like that is going to be having a talk with his Chief Pilot before very long.


  “Do pilots flying commercial airliners feel or have a responsibility
  not to subject a machine to extreme mechanical stresses…?”


Yes, absolutely. And the Flight Data Recorder will record what happens. If you do something that grounds an airplane for an inspection and/or repairs, you’ll probably be explaining yourself to somebody before too long.  More than that, you have a responsibility to your passengers to give them a safe flight, as comfortable as possible, with as little drama as possible.  And sometimes that means that things won’t happen on schedule, because we’re going to wait out whatever adverse weather condition is out there.


  “ … or is the assumption that nothing they can really do has not been
  foreseen by the designers?”


Airliners today are pretty tough, but a sufficiently negligent pilot can mishandle them to the point of catastrophic failure. (Fly-by-wire gives some protections in this regard, but also allows for failure modes that are easier to catch in non-FWB aircraft — Air France 447 as an example of the latter.)  The designers known that somewhere in the aircraft’s lifespan, the flaps will be oversped, and there is ample safety margin there.  But if you go pulling 9 G’s on a full airliner, the designers can’t help you, and you are absolutely beyond any margins they gave you.

In general, the range of techniques that 99.9% of airline pilots will use won’t greatly affect the service life of an aircraft. It will be limited (typically) by pressurization cycles more than by anything else.  And that’s because the culture IS to keep things safe, and calm, and as smooth and as low-drama as possible.

Did I mention that “Flight” really is about an alternate universe mostly unrelated to our own?