Flare: low, slow, and uncoordinated?
Crosswind landings are always uncoordinated. I'm not familiar with big jets, but I believe they simply kick the rudder to align the nose with the runway and let the momentum carry it in the right direction until it touches down, but I might be mistaken here.

In a smaller aircraft (like a piston single) you're taught to drop a wing into the wind and effectively land in a side slip.

This is all perfectly safe, the dangerous situation you're talking about is a skidding turn, where you apply too much bottom rudder, letting the 'inner' wing slow down to the point of stalling. This only applies to an actual turn however, if you're flying straight, coordinated or not, there's still more or less the same airflow over the wings. You could however experience other aerodynamic effects where fuselage and airfoils effectively perturb the air for other airfoils and might cause a wing drop or pitch change, but it depends on the properties of the aircraft.