Why are the cockpit controls of airplanes so complicated?
I would argue that the controls of an aircraft are not complicated, but rather that they are simply foreign to you.  

In the vast majority of cases, the various controls in the aircraft do one thing:  Turn something on, or turn it off.  They are quite simple actually, but what makes it appear complicated to you is that there are so many of them.  As you learn about the airplane (especially modern ones) you will see that these individual controls are grouped together by system, in a way that actually makes pretty good sense.



To put it in perspective, let's say that you had never seen a laptop computer before:



This...  thing (remember, you've never seen one before!) has 94 buttons on the top alone!  It has all kinds of little jacks and plugs on the outside.  It has things that pop open from the side.  It's just...  complicated.

Then someone points out that most of the buttons on the top are buttons that you can press to make a letter show up on the screen.  This takes much of the mystery out of the complicated mess on the top, but then as you start to learn more you figure out that some of the less commonly keys are grouped together by function.  You have the arrow keys, the function keys, the key modifiers, the CD controls...  Suddenly it doesn't seem quite so complicated anymore.  

You complain to your friend that the monitor (hey, we've learned a fancy new word!) is a little too small, and they suggest that you hook up an external monitor.  We can do that??  Of course, that's what this port is for.  Cool, now that's one less mystery.  This goes on, and before long you can even pick up a different brand of laptop, with different buttons and pretty much figure it out on your own.  Before long...  the mystery is gone and it's just a laptop computer.



And so it goes with airplanes.  Newer airplanes are being designed with fewer switches and gauges.  Take a look at the progression in the Falcon 900 series aircraft:


Falcon 900B

 
Falcon 900EX


Falcon 900EX-EASy

Each iteration has fewer and fewer controls and instruments.  You may even say that they look less complicated.  However, I can assure you that each newer model has far more capabilities and a lot more to learn in order to understand and safely fly the airplane.  They each have the full capability of the model before it, along with additional features and more to learn.  Certain systems no longer have switches or dials and you have to look through different menus in order to access them.

Appearances... can be deceiving.