Cafe brulot in emily post's etiquette
A quick internet search "Café Brulot" returns a number of recipes.

There is even a scan of"Good Taste Today" by Emily Post in the St. Petersburg Times Feb 6 1938) that describes the Café Brulot (not a recipe).

http://news.google.com/newspapers?id=nx9PAAAAIBAJ&amp;sjid=Wk0DAAAAIBAJ&amp;pg=3267%2C872400