LCD connection problem
For those reading this answer prior to acquiring an LCD for an Arduino project, consider using a more common alpha / numeric LCD rather than a graphic LCD or GLCD.  Likely there will be more examples to follow as well as more software with more community support.

The linked to Graphical LCD (or GLCD) uses a SED1520 controller.  Searching the Arduino community resulted in finding this openGLCD project.  There may be others.  Looking here (near the end of 2019) we see the comment "added custom sed1520 init routine to fully initialize sed1520 chips" next to the sed1520_Device.h file.  Likely this project supports GLCD modules which use the SED1520 chip.

With regards to wiring GLCD module, on page 19 of the specifications linked to in the question, the table in section 5.1 lists the description of the 20 GLCD pins.