Detect if a 3 phase AC submersible pump is on
It's likely that the power to the motor is originating at a panel with breakers. You should be able to confirm that only one breaker set is being used to power the pump motor. At that location, all the wires are separated.

If you do not have the necessary skill to identify the correct wires, consider to consult an electrician. It is advisable to remove power to the panel before you begin to insert your fingers to wrap the sensor wire around the correct lead.