Control LED strip IR controller using Arduino
I tried to do the same thing with hooking up an IR LED on a Raspberry Pi. It worked pretty well but the chip on the receiver board could not take fast switchings. I ended up doing my own PCB.

The problem is that the chips run at voltages higher than you would use for an ESP8266 or Arduino. This will be the biggest problem if you want to supply it with the voltages available on the board.

I think the safest thing is to see if you can simulate IR input by just connecting to GND and OUT of the IR receiver port.