PIR motion wake ESP8266 from deepsleep
What you need is an edge detector. As long as the PIR output is hight, the ESP stays in reset mode.  

You can use a capacitor to do the trick, as shown in the following schematic.
You'll probably want to get rid of the pull-down resistor R1 since you're using an open-collector output.



If the voltage at the collector is the blue curve, then the resulting voltage at the output of the circuit will be similar to the yellow curve. (Note that this simulation used an ideal square wave as input, produced by a push-pull output from a CMOS chip, for example. An open-collector output will have slightly different characteristics, the high peak won't be as high.)



At the instant when the collector voltage drops to (almost) zero, the voltage across C1 will be 0V, so the output is close to 0V as well. Then the capacitor immediately starts to charge through R2, so the voltage on the reset pin rises exponentially.

To prevent a high voltage peak when the PIR turns off, a diode is used to discharge the capacitor more quickly. If the resistor at the collector is large enough, this might not be an issue at all.

The same principle is used in the Arduino UNO, for example, to reset the ATmega when DTR goes low.