Using a transistor to get 100mA on a IR led
Increasing the power to the LED isn't the best way of increasing the distance. In fact it's the worst way.

The 100mA is only for a small duty cycle. You can power it with 100mA but only for a fraction of the time. The overall average light output won't be any more than at 30mA.

The problem you are actually suffering from is the fact that your receiver can't distinguish the LED's light from the background light. That is simple to overcome though. You just need to modulate your LED with a high frequency (typically 30kHz or higher) and perform a high pass filter and amplification on the receiver.

Exactly the same way that remote controls do it.

That way you can distinguish the LED (flashing at a given frequency) from the background light (static brightness or relatively very slowly changing).