i2c high speed and pull-up resistors
i need to speed up the comm to fast mode how to make this

Wire.setClock(400000);


and the line of code where to put it in the code

Just after Wire.begin() in setup().  Wire.begin() sets the speed to 100,000 and you need to then override that afterwards to set it to 400,000 (or whatever speed you want to run at).

and in the master or slave ?

In the master, since it's the master that generates the clock.

what about the pull-up resistors ? does arduino uno includes built in pull-up resistors ?

Yes, but they're too high for reliable I2C operation. You should add your own resistors in the region of 1kΩ.

does it needs to disable it and put my own pull up resistors ?

No, yours will just be in parallel with them, with the net result of a small reduction of overall resistance.