Using Arduino and XBee at the same time
If I understand correctly your goal is to receive data on your computer from an arduino connected with xbee? You could use a USB > Xbee board similar to Sparkfun's Xbee USB explorer board. I am not familiar with the shield that you are using, but some xbee shields allow you to select the pins that the xbee is connected to. It sounds like yours is defaulting to Pin 0 and Pin 1, hardware serial on the Uno. If you can switch it to Pin 2 and Pin 3 (or any two digital pins) you could use software serial with the xbee, leaving hardware serial free for your USB connection.