Connecting TFT Display MI0283QT-9A to ESP32
It sounds like you want a 4-wire 8-bit serial SPI compatible interface.  To get that you have to set the IMx pins to the right state to enable that interface.  That means:


IM0 = LOW
IM1 = HIGH
IM2 = HIGH
IM3 = HIGH


You can hard-wire those to GND for LOW and +3.3V for HIGH.

That will then configure it to work in the right mode for you, where it gives you access to the following pins:

| Display  | ESP32   | Function                    |
|----------|---------|-----------------------------|
| SCL (RS) | SCK     | Serial clock                |
| SDI      | MOSI    | Serial data Master -&gt; Slave |
| SDO      | MISO    | Serial data Slave -&gt; Master |
| D/CX (WR)| DC      | Data / Command register sel |
| CSX      | CS      | Chip Select (Active Low)    |
| RST      | RST     | Reset                       |