Passing serial data to Processing using something other than ln to trigger Processing
If I understand your question (which is not certain):


Pick a different "trigger" byte that you won't be sending in your messages.  Maybe TAB?
In your "Processing" program, use: port.bufferUntil(TRIGGER);
In your Arduino sketch, rather than println, use print to send both your data and the trigger byte:  Serial.print(your_message); Serial.print(TRIGGER);


Note that sending binary data will cause this to fail when the data uses the trigger byte.

From: https://www.arduino.cc/en/Serial/Println The println()
   method sends your output then a CR and NL.  And it seems bufferUntil() takes a character on which to trigger:
https://processing.org/reference/libraries/serial/Serial_bufferUntil_.html