Showing/hiding deletion buttons in a grid view
Use a single selector instead of "find" and "not." Leave the find, this is faster in every browser except opera (see comments).

For the 2nd part of the selector, you can use the "sibling" combinator ~ to grab everthing except its first operand, and the :first-child pseudoclass selector to get the first child, giving you the same set of elements without using several jQuery methods. This is faster than using not(':first') in all browsers, and faster than a single selector (e.g. not using find either) in all browsers except Opera (which maintains its native-selector edge). See this test.

Note: #someTable tr will also return tr elements from a nested table. You really want to target the direct row descendants of the table. But don't forget about tbody, which is a required element. So this probably should be "#divTab2GridInquiries > tbody > tr:first-child ~ tr". But that is a mouthful... and it's really slow. If you have no nested tables it will work fine as coded below.

$.each($("#divTab2GridInquiries").find("tr:first-child ~ tr"), function () {      
    var tr = $(this);


Not sure what  you're doing here - the selector is using a wildcard match, but val only operates against the first element in a selection set. Can you target this element more specifically? In any event, instead of wildcard matching the id, add a class and select on that. Classes are much faster than substring matching attributes.

        //var val = tr.find("input[id*='hdnLineStatus']").val();
        var val = tr.find(".hdnLineStatus").val();


IDs are supposed to be unique. I'm not sure why you would have to target it this way. But using an attribute selector like this will definitely be slower than a regular ID or class selector. If these ids are really unique then just use #divBtnDelete. I suspect that they aren't and you're creating invalid html. Get rid of the ID an add a class.

        // var btnDelete = tr.find("div[id='divBtnDelete']");
        var btnDelete = tr.find(".divBtnDelete");

        //var btnTobeDeleted = tr.find("div[id='divBtnTobeDeleted']");
        var btnTobeDeleted = tr.find(".divBtnTobeDeleted");


This set of ifs should be a switch, but that's probably not slowing you down nearly as much as the selectors.

        if (val == "N") {
            btnDelete.hide();
            btnTobeDeleted.hide();
        }
        if (val == "S") {
            tr.css("background-color", "#99FF99");h
            tr.find("input").css("background-color", "#99FF99");
            btnDelete.show();
            btnTobeDeleted.hide();
        }

        if (val == "D") {
            tr.css("background-color", "#FFFF99");
            tr.find("input").css("background-color", "#FFFF99");
            btnDelete.show();
            btnTobeDeleted.hide();
        }


Use a class again.

        //From user rights 
        //if ($("input[id*='hdnTab2ShowDelete']").val() != "Y") {
        if ($(".hdnTab2ShowDelete").val() != "Y") {

            btnTobeDeleted.hide();
            //btnDelete.show();
        }
    });