The menu bar doesn't load in Wordpress
check you wordpress directory path in your apache/nginx conf. If its different than '/usr/home/xxxuser/public_html/' either you can change in apache/nginx conf or replace $civicrm_root and template_c path in civicrm.settings.php
Below line 242 in the file civicrm.settings.php
    global $civicrm_paths;
    $civicrm_paths['civicrm.root']['url'] = CIVICRM_UF_BASEURL . 'wp-content/plugins/civicrm/civicrm/';
    $civicrm_paths['civicrm.files']['url'] = CIVICRM_UF_BASEURL . 'wp-content/uploads/civicrm/';

NOTE: make sure you have '/' at the end for CIVICRM_UF_BASEURL value.