Blender and 3dsmax Scale conversion
Many import/export options include a scale to use when importing/exporting.

When exporting to fbx from blender set the scale to 0.01

When importing into blender go the opposite way, set it to 100.0



Another option is to change the units scale in blender to change the sizes shown in blender. If you set this and save the startup scene, it will be set that way each time you start blender.