Showing marginal product of capital is independent of the scale of production
There's something quite subtle going on here that means your final line is wrong (but it's an easy mistake to make and a tough one to spot).

To compute the MPK, we must differentiate the production function with respect to the current level of capital: $\partial F/\partial K$.

But in your final line, you are not differentiating with respect to the current level of capital (which is $\tilde{K}=\lambda K$). You are instead differentiating with respect to $K$, which is a fraction $1/\lambda$ of the current amount of capital. 

If we compute the derivative with respect to $\tilde{K}\equiv \lambda K$ instead of just $K$ then everything works as it should:

$$\frac{\partial F(\lambda K,\lambda L)}{\partial \lambda K}=\frac{\partial (8(\lambda K)^{1/2}(\lambda L)^{1/2})}{\partial \lambda K}=4(\lambda K)^{-1/2}(\lambda L)^{1/2}=4\frac{\sqrt{L}}{\sqrt{K}}.$$

This does not depend on $\lambda$ so MPK is indeed independent of the scale of the economy. QED