How do I get a blur (blended) effect in pencil drawings?
The blurring you're talking about sounds like blending, which is the technique of evening out or gradating values and colors.

Fingers

Probably the simplest way of blending your regions together, whether matching values or values you want to merge together, is by rubbing it with your finger tip! You'll want to make sure your fingertip is clean, and oil-free, so that you don't smudge it with something else. Then, you simply rub. The direction you rub can have an effect. 


If you have two parallel lines and rub following their direction, you won't get much blending between them. Instead, you'll end up just blurring the lines, instead of having sharp edges. This technique is often used to blur the curved lines when shading spheres, on of the most common shading practice exercises for beginners.
Blending at angles away from the lines will great a smudge of sorts that causes a gradation from the lines value to a light grey. The closer the lines, the less likely you'll run into greys. You can see this by just drawing a dark area on a blank page and smearing away, to see how your pencil and pencil pressure have affected it.


You need to avoid back-and-forth strokes if you want a gradation. Always start your stroke from the darkest value and move outward.
You can also blend in circles or back and forth, which may be the most helpful for trying to get a single area to be one value that's smoothed out, so the strokes don't show.



Tools

Now, there's also tools made specifically for this, called tortillons and blending stumps. 

They're made of tightly-wound paper. Tortillons being less tight than stumps, likely hollow, and you can clearly see the layers of paper, like the tip of a grease pencil. Blending stumps are so tightly wound that the seem more like a solid chunk of the paper with a point sanded off.


Left: Pic courtesy rapidfireart.com.
Right: The top is the back end of the tortillon, where you you can see how it's layered and hollow. The back end of the stump is more stump!

These give you much more precision over the blending. They come in many sizes, which makes them more adaptable than the five sizes of your fingers. 

A plus to these is that as they blend, they tend to pick up more of the graphite dust in their fibers, evenly spreading it around the area and getting dust off so you don't need to use a brush or air. Your finger will end up absorbing the graphite or charcoal, but will layer it and compress it from the pressure. These can lead to you smudging dark areas of light ones accidentally if you forget to clean up.

The downside is that the tortillons don't really clean up, so if they get too much graphite built up, you'll only want to use them for matching values. To counter this, most tortillons you can purchase have the ability to peel away the outside layer. Failing that, you can use a sandpaper pad, similar to what you can use to sharpen a pencil, to rub off the rough edge.

In my experience, tortillons, both bought and homemade, tend to give a softer blend than stumps. I've made my own tortillons by wrapping up old drawing paper (possibly with a bad sketch on the inside) and taping the end seam. These homemade tortillons have given me the softest blends, as the dull point often frays.


My homemade tortillon, not a weird cigarette. Notice the curved, feathery tip.

Here's a comparison of the four tools I mentioned, using an HB pencil:




The first column is blending a solid area, mostly back and forth (not against the strokes, which would blend more evenly).


The stump and homemade tool hide the strokes the best, in this case.

The second column is a few tight lines, stroking along them. 


Notice the finger smudged well outside it (oops!), and the others were more precise. However, the homemade one had much "fuzzier" edges, which can be nice.

The last column is gradating out from dark.


As you go down the column, you'll see each tool, in this case, was better and blending from the dark line, so there's not so much of a hard edge between the dark and light. 
The other thing to notice is that the strokes are almost invisible on the finger patch, and much less visible on the homemade stick.



I didn't blend any two values together for this demo. You will probably not just lay down a single dark line and blend outward, like my last column. Instead, you'd create a gradation yourself by using pencil pressure and different hardness pencils, then blend those values together with your tool.