Black Smoke Produced from Regular Lighter but Not Torch Lighter Applied to Copper
Common copper wire, especially used in electronic components like inductors and transformers, is usually covered with insulating varnish. This is the common source of black smoke, sometimes it may even burn on its own. I doubt, however, that kitchenware is coated with such varnish, there is no point in it.

There are two types of devices with flames: ones where the fuel is premixed with air, that usually produce blueish flame, and ones where fuel is not pre-mixed with air, but burns and mixes with it in same time, that may produce bright yellow flame.

For many organic compounds, especially ones that require large amount of oxygen per molecule to fully burn, in case the fuel is not premixed with enough air, the flame usually contains oxygen-deficient region where tiny particles of carbon and molecular hydrogen are formed. These carbon particles, since they are heated, give thermal light emission and are responsible for bright non-transparent orange-yellow organic flames. A typical example of such flame is a flame of a candle. It is a flame of heavy hydrocarbons or fatty acids (c20+), that require tens of molecules of oxygen per molecule of the fuel to fully burn.

In case gases from this yellow part of the flame are cooled without mixing with more air, this carbon particles may be obtained in form of deposits or black smoke. For this, a cold effective conductor of heat (i.e. metal, especially copper and silver) or a solid surface with high heat capacity introduced into yellow part of the flame may be used. In some cases, when too many of such particles are produced and the flame is not particularly hot, there is no need even to cool the flame. This is the usual case of hydrocarbons with big amount of carbon, like aromatics, and chlorinated hydrocarbons, like PVC (as long as they burn at all, which often is not the case even if there is no much chlorine in the compound). 

Propane torches usually have a mean to regulate amount of air premixed with fuel. Torch lighters are small propane torches, usually without such means. When propane in such torch is premixed with excess of air, a very hot blueish short flame is formed. However, when air is not premixed with propane, the flame is organized in layers with more oxidized outer layers and more reduced inner layers. In inner layers, the dominating reactions are thermal decomposition

$\ce{C3H8 = 3C + 4H2}$

and incomplete combustion

$\ce{C3H8 + 2O2= 3C + 4H2O}$

(this is an oversimplification, as numerous other intermediates are formed, but that's advanced stuff)

In outer layers, propane combusts completely, just as if it was premixed with air

$\ce{C3H8 + 5O_2= 3CO2 + 4H2O}$

and carbon particles (and other reduced products) from inner layers also combust here.

Now, to get carbon particles from the flame in form of smoke the key is to cool them before they mix with more air. An ideal solution would be to suck them with tiny pipe and cool with water. However, it seems, that skein of copper mesh, at least until it is heated enough, works good for this purpose, both cooling the inner layers and hindering their mixing with air.

Since flames of fuels that are not pre-mixed with air have very efficient emitter of visible and and infrared light in it (many carbon particles), they tend to be cooler, especially the inner part. The flames with fuel pre-mixed with air (like in torch lighters with blueish flame like this), the flame is thin, quite short and much hotter.

Copper wire, when heated in air, also oxidizes. If done properly, it is a good way to produce pure black copper (II) oxide. However, it usually stay on the surface of the wire and indeed, can be washed with hydrochloric acid. If there are black particles that are not dissolved in hydrochloric acid, they are carbon particles.