What is the highest possible expanded octet?
I took an interest in this question because it's something I recently wondered myself. First of all, I should clarify that while you mention hypervalency, what you seem interested in is hypercoordination, or even more generally, just compounds with high coordination numbers (hypercoordination is used specifically when the number of ligands in a compound is larger than "normal"). Hypercoordination and high coordination numbers are entirely independent of hypervalency or VSEPR theory altogether. Regardless of the precise electronic structure in a compound, coordination numbers can often be determined far more directly, especially when the compounds can create crystal structures for x-ray crystallography or neutron diffraction.

Usually there is little focus given to compounds with more than six ligands, as the vast majority of compounds will have atoms surrounded by six or less ligands. However, there are some representatives for higher coordination numbers. Some books will mention iodine heptafluoride, $\ce{IF7}$, as a seven-coordinate compound, with its pentagonal bipyramidal structure. It is still possible to add a fluoride and obtain an example of coordination number 8 in the octafluoroiodate(VII) anion, $\ce{IF8^{-}}$, which has an interesting square antiprismatic geometry (take a cube and twist a face by 45°). 

For coordination number 9, representatives can be found in the transition metal hydrides, such as the nonahydridorhenate anion, $\ce{ReH_9^{2-}}$, and the lowest energy configuration in this case is a curious tricapped triagonal prism.

Is it possible to go higher than coordination number 9 in coordination compounds? While there are examples, at the present it seems that none of them contain solely monodentate ligands, that is, individual ligands which only bind to the centre once. This is because either there would have to be a lot of crowding over the central atom, creating repulsions between the ligands, or because to allow enough space the ligands would have to stay relatively far from the central atom, making their bonds weak. 

However, if a single ligand is allowed to bond to the centre through more than atom simultaneously, then the coordination number can keep increasing without requiring the presence of too many ligands. Actinides have a very rich coordination chemistry and are capable of generating several impressive compounds, such as uranocene with coordination number 16, but it seems the current record is held by actinide elements surrounded by four cyclopentadienyl rings, each with five carbon atoms, reaching an amazing coordination number of 20 in tetrakis(cyclopentadienyl)thorium(IV) ($\ce{Th}\mathrm{(\eta ^5-}\ce{C5H5}\mathrm{)_4}$ or its uranium analogue.

To finalize, it's interesting to note that though there are no examples yet of compounds with coordination number 10 or above containing only monodentate ligands, their expected geometries can be calculated even for much higher coordination numbers (under certain assumptions). For very high coordination numbers, calculations and physical reality will likely diverge, but perhaps a few more coordination numbers with the expected geometry will be unlocked by the study of ultraheavy element chemistry. Of course, the calculations linked here don't help much to study the geometry of coordination compounds with polydentate ligands, as they rely significantly on the geometry of the ligand itself

Edit: This very relevant article raises some interesting points. For example, endohedral fullerene compounds could be thought of as a central atom surrounded by a single ligand in the shape of a cage, so one could possibly make a case for structures with coordination numbers of 60, 70, 80 or even more. The article also calculates the possible existence of a compound containing 15 monodentate ligands, the cation $\ce{PbHe_{15}^{2+}}$, though it would be very weakly bound (as you might expect from a helium compound) and possibly restricted to the gas phase.