Stability of alkenes by hyper conjugation
You are confusing the mixing of orbitals with the promotion of electrons from one orbital to another. You're thinking of this:

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I don't blame you, because the phrasing "delocalisation into an antibonding orbital" implies that, but that is not actually what happens.

In what actually happens, the two original orbitals are said to mix. They cease to exist. They overlap to give two new MOs, one which is even lower in energy and one which is higher in energy, like in this diagram:

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The "new MO 1" has characteristics of both the original $\ce{C-H}$ $\sigma$ as well as the original $\ce{C=C}$ $\pi^*$, which is why we loosely say "donation into the $\pi^*$ orbital". However, don't take it too literally. The phrase means that two orbitals are mixed. It does not mean that electrons are promoted from one orbital to another.