Why are low spin tetrahedral complexes so rare?
Hybridisation won't explain anything in transition metal complexes, so please stop using it, at least to the extent where it is possible to avoid using it. Quite literally everything about transition metal complexes is better rationalised using MO theory, and I am not exaggerating.

The reason why low-spin $T_\mathrm d$ complexes are rare is because the splitting parameter, $\Delta_t$, is significantly smaller than the corresponding octahedral parameter $\Delta_o$. In crystal field theory, there is a complicated derivation which leads to the conclusion that (all things being equal)

$$\Delta_t = \frac{4}{9}\Delta_o$$

For more information, please see: Why do tetrahedral complexes have approximately 4/9 the field split of octahedral complexes? and Why do octahedral metal ligand complexes have greater splitting than tetrahedral complexes?. Of course, this relationship is not exact in the real world, because CFT is a very simplified model; ligands are not point charges. However, it is still true in a qualitative sense.

Since the splitting $\Delta_t$ is smaller, it is usually easier to promote an electron to the higher-energy $\mathrm t_2$ orbitals, rather than to pair the electrons up in the lower-energy $\mathrm e$ orbitals. Consequently, most tetrahedral complexes, especially those of the first-row transition metals, are high-spin. Low-spin ones do exist (e.g. J. Chem. Soc., Chem. Commun. 1986, 1491), but aren't common.