Which isomers of C6H4(OH)2 has a higher melting point?why?
Polarity rules the day if there is no other interactions involved. There is quite a lot of potential interactions in organics, that may overwhelm polarity by orders of magnitude.

To name a few. 

There is a well known effect of halogen-halogen interactions, that may raise bp/mp dramatically. This is due to so-known dispersion forces, caused by correlation of electron movement in two atoms. Sometimes it is described as interaction of 'momentary dipoles'. To produce strong dispersion forces, atoms involved must be large and have a lot of electrons. Naturally, heavier atoms in a column are typically larger and have more electrons, thus we have strong increase of mp/bp for most haloalcones whith shift from chlorine to iodine. 

Another well known effect is formation of intermolecular hydrogen bonds. Hydrogen bonds are common in compounds containg $\ce{O-H}$ or $\ce{N-H}$ bonds, but sometimes may pop-up in other, usually quite exotic settings. The most common form of hydrogen bonds is a bond of form $\ce{R-O-H\cdot\cdot  \cdot O(R)-R}$ . Such a bond may be stronger of weaker. It is stronger if the second oxygen atom has strong negative charge and the hydrogen involved has strong positive charge. Hydrogen bond is stronger if it is linear, i.e. the entier $\ce{O-H\cdot\cdot  \cdot O}$ fragment is linear. Intermolecular hydrogen bonds have competition : intramoleculear hydrogen bonds. Intramolecular hydrogen bonds prevents two potential sweet spots from interacting with other molecules, and thus a compound capable of formation of intramolecular bonds typically has lower mp/bp than compound that cannont, but have same amount of potential hydrogen bonding sites.

And, finally, come electrostatic interactions. They are not limited to just polarity, some compounds are ionic and this typically results in high bp/mp. Ionic bonding is common in inorganics, but may occur in organics as well, say, $\ce{N(CH3)4 PF6}$

Now, about example at hand. All three molecules are capable of formation of hydrogen bonds. So, the one that is better in it wins the contest of bp/mp. 

The 1,2-disubstituted compound is capable of forming intramolecular bonds, and the oxygen atoms are a bit crouded. This makes bonding a bit weaker.

The 1,3-compound is better in this regard, but has $\ce{OH}$ groups in meta-position. It is known, that oxygen in such group is capable of donating some of its electron density into aromatic ring. However, if we put two oxygens in 1,3-pattern,  the two will suppress donation of each other thanks to resonance effects. The last compounds would have the most polar hydrogen bond. It also has a high symmetry, which helps. It is well known, that slight asymmetry mar lower mp considerably. Consider, for example, toluene. It has higher bp than benzene but significantly lower mp.

Consequently, compound 3 (hydroquinone) wins the prize.