Polyprotic acids and bases
If you have a molecule or ion with multiple sites that can be protonated (as you do here), and the sites can interact with each other (as they can here), the affinity for protons drops rapidly as more sites are protonated. 

The proton affinity of the ion in your second reaction is a couple of orders of magnitude less than in your first reaction because of this effect.

Piling a third proton on there would be far less favorable than that---oxalic acid is a weak acid, and you're forcing it to act as a base by making it accept a proton1. You should stop with the two reactions you have.

It's really the same thing with hypochlorite ion; putting one proton on is fine (you get HClO, which is a weak acid). Putting a second proton on is tough, because you'd be making an acid act as a base.


1. This kind of thing does happen, though such protonated acids will quickly lose their extra proton to the surrounding water molecules. If you're using glacial acetic acid as a solvent, your acid ion is $\rm CH_3COOH_2^+$ instead of $\rm H_3O^+$, 
and $\rm CH_3COO^-$ instead of $\rm OH^-$.