Why don't ions have one equilibrium potential? (Nernst equation)
Good question.  The answer (as I understand it) is that if there were only a single type of permeable ion, then there would be only one equilibrium ratio, and it would depend on the transmembrane potential. 

However, in real life, there (a) is usually more than one membrane permeable ion, and more importantly (b) the transmembrane potential is not a fully independent variable but is affected by the transmembrane permeation of all those ions.  

Imagine sovling a single instance of the Nernst equation when you know the electrical potential $\Delta \psi$: 


$\frac{\Delta G}{F}=\text{ion motive force}=0=-m \Delta \psi+ RT\ln{\frac{[X_{out}]}{[X_{in}]}}$


If you know $\Delta \psi$ (and $R$ and $T$) and you are at equilibrium (so $\Delta G$ is 0), then the ion concentration ratio will always go to the same value, as you suggested in your question.

But now suppose there are many equilibrating ions, say sodium, potassium, protons, and chloride.  And suppose you don't know $\Delta \psi$.  Now, there is a Nernst equation for each species, as well as Gauss's law that $\nabla \centerdot \bf{E} = \frac{\rho}{\epsilon}$.  And probably also total material balances like $V_{out}[X_{out}] + V_{in}[X_{in}] = N_{tot}$ for each ion.   To fully solve the system to determine equilibrium, all equations have to be solved at once!  I hope you can see that (a) doing this is complicated and (b) if parameters like the volume of the cell $V_{in}$ or even more likely the total amount $N_{tot}$ of ions in the system changes for one ion, it could completely change the ratio $\frac{[X_{out}]}{[X_{in}]}$ for other ions.  That's why in general, the ratio is not the same every time.