Fireplace window: Can one influence how fast soot is building up?
I don't have a fireplace or wood stove, so I don't have a practical technique that I know works to prevent soot buildup on glass, but I can answer some of your questions about glass and soot. To start, I should add a caveat here: while many fireplaces use tempered glass windows, wood stoves generally have glass-ceramic windows to withstand the increased heat. As far as surface properties go for this, glass-ceramic isn't dramatically different from normal glass.


  does each glass (especially my one) have pores with a size that starch
  particles can fit in? I read somewhere that starch has a diameter
  between 2-170 µm depending on the type.


While special techniques exist for making porous glasses, normal glass is not porous and float glass (the standard technique for fabricating flat glass panes) produces quite smooth pieces even without polishing (hundreds of nm peak-to-peak), so probably whole starch particles are not getting stuck in the surface of the glass and the surface roughness probably has little impact on soot adhesion in this case.


  I'm making a fire where I burn wood! Why wouldn't the starch simply
  burn and create itself the soot?


Unless the flame is right up to the glass, it probably doesn't get hot enough to really burn starch (if any is even there). That site didn't compare it directly with not applying starch so it's not clear that it makes any difference.


  How does soot building work? I mean, why does the soot stick so hard
  at the window? After all it's just little particles flowing around and
  landing on the window. (I know it's called burning in, but how does
  the heat work on a already burned particle?)


Soot is basically the deposition of incomplete combustion products from a flame. A wood flame appears yellow or orange because tiny particles of mostly carbon are incandescing. There is insufficient oxygen to fully combust the carbon in the fuel to $\ce{CO2}$, so the combustion results in carbon molecules in various states of oxidation from small polymers to elemental carbon. These species are really only stable as gases within the heat of the flame itself and will thus readily deposit onto cold surfaces, like the window glass. Many modern wood stoves seem to have "air-wash" systems that flow air past the inside of the window to reduce how much soot can actually reach the surface.

What is actually deposited as soot is a complex mixture, but what is emitted from the flame is related to how much air is available and the temperature of the flame (the two are also connected with each other). If the oxygen supply is increased, more complete combustion is favoured so less carbon species that can deposit as soot are formed. The temperature that is attained influences the composition of soot particles: higher temperatures produce more aliphatic and less aromatic compounds. The practical significance is that reducing the flame intensity by limiting oxygen can greatly increase the production of soot. (and may have some effect on how well it adheres to the glass, though I wasn't able to find anything concrete to that effect)

From the non-scientific sources I glanced through, it seems to be well known that excessive soot buildup can be due to wet fuel or low airflow and that burning a very hot fire can help make soot easier to remove. As for the corn starch, it may indeed be leaving some deposit that hinders soot adhesion (there are commercial cleaners that claim to leave a film behind that makes soot easier to remove), the act of applying it may be removing existing soot that's too small to see but new soot adheres readily too, or it may do nothing. Perhaps you might want to try applying corn starch to half of a freshly-cleaned window to see if there is a noticeable difference.