How to make by dilution a certain ion concentration
When you use the number of moles of calcium ions, you are actually using the number of moles of calcium nitrate. You have done the 1:2 conversion already in your question. You found the amount of nitrate ions needed to be 0.05. But then instead of converting that amount to moles of calcium ions, you were actually converting it to a number of moles of calcium nitrate, since the ratio of moles calcium ($\ce{Ca}$) to moles calcium nitrate ($\ce{Ca(NO3)2}$) is 1:1.