Can heteroatoms with lone pairs be chiral centres?
Generally, amine nitrogens will not behave like a normal asymmetric carbon. Simple amines are roughly $\mathrm{sp^3}$ hybridiized and the molecules you use as examples do have 4 (we include the lone pair of electrons as a substituent) different substituents around the central nitrogen atom. So in principle me might consider it asymmetric or chiral.  But simple amines can undergo a process called nitrogen inversion, which essentially coverts one enantiomer into the other.





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However, if one can find a way to slow down or eliminate the nitrogen inversion process, then chiral amines can be isolated. One way to achieve this is to incorporate the amine nitrogen into a 3-membered ring (an aziridine). Now to achieve the planar state necessary for nitrogen inversion requires the bond angle in the 3-membered ring to open from 60° to 120°, an impossible task. Aziridines containing a chiral nitrogen atom have been isolated and characterized.