For his show on March 24 , 2009 he released the soundtrack\/studio album called For The Love Of Ray J. He dated Cocktail for several months before they split , partly due to rumors of Ray J dating Tila Tequila . On November 2 , 2009 a second season of the show , For the Love of Ray J ( season 2 ) , premiered . For his show on March 24 , 2009 he released the soundtrack\/studio album called For The Love Of Ray J. On November 2 , 2009 , the show 's second season premiered .