According to some , a quickie between a heterosexual couple generally satisfies only the man 's desire . Others claim that quickies ( with intercourse or some other form of stimulation of the vulva ) can be `` a major turn-on '' for a woman , too , but still may not give a woman enough time to lubricate naturally , and so require the use of a water-based lubricant . According to some , a quickie between a heterosexual couple generally satisfies only the man 's desire ; others claim that quickies ( with intercourse or some other form of stimulation of the vulva ) can be `` a major turn-on '' for a woman , too , but still may not give a woman enough time to lubricate naturally , and so require the use of an artificial water-based lubricant .