Lawless and Tapert have two sons : Julius Robert Bay Tapert ( born 16 October 1999 ) and Judah Miro Tapert ( born 7 May 2002 ) , both born in Auckland . They have two sons : Julius Robert Bay Tapert ( born 16 October 1999 ) and Judah Miro Tapert ( born 7 May 2002 ) , who were both born in Auckland , New Zealand .