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Kuyafuneka bona abentwana Bazi Bona Khuyini Okuvumelekileko Nokungakavumeleki Qinisekisa bona bayezwisisa bona kubayini kubekwa imi thetho begodu nokuthi kuba nemiphumela emimbi nangabe ayilandelwa ngefanelo. Hlala ujame egameni linye begodu uje zise nakutlhogekako. Njengoba abentwana bakhula, bakhuthaze bona bakhulume ngemithetho leyo begodu bacoce bebavume lane ngaleziindlela zokujezisa.
Bakwakwazele Abentwana Qobe Nabaziphethe Kuhle Ngokuthi ubatjele bona uzitha nda kangangani izinto ezihle aba zenzako, izenzo zokuziphatha kumbi kwabo ziya nokuphela.
Ukungezelela kilokho, banikele umtlomelo nabenze umsebenzi omuhle kunokuthi kuphume phambili igadango lokubaje zisa nabonileko. Kanengi aba belethi abanengi batlomelisa abentwana ngokubathengela izinto zokudlala namaswidi, umtlomelo omuhle kungaba kubasingatha, uhleke namkha umomotheke/ubobothe ke nabo begodu ubabonise bona uyakuthabela abakwenzako.
Benze Bazithembe Kuqakatheke khulu bona usize umntwanakho bona azithembe.
Ungamsiza ngokumkwakwa zela lokha nakalinga ukukusiza kokuthileko begodu nalokha na basebenzisa imikhumbulo yabo, nokuhlakanipha kwabo kunye nokudlala kwabo; ubakhu thaze bona bakhulume; ubenze bazizwe bakhethekile, begodu bewubatjele bona bakhethekile; uthembeke kibo, ukwenzela bona nabo bazokwazi ukuthe mbela kuwe.
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Abentwana abanobulwele boku ba litshwenyo bangaba nemiraro ehlukahlukeneko njengeAtte ntion Deficit Disorder  namkha i-Attention Deficit and Hype ractivity Disorder  ezifuna bona balandele indlela ethileko yokudla begodu bafuna nesizo lezamaphilo.
Nangabe umbelethi namkha umuntu otjheja umntwana aba kwazi ukuphatha abantwana namkha ukusiza labo aba neendingo ezikhethekileko, bangadosela ku-Childline, enomborweni ethi: 0800 055 555 bakhulume nomyelelisi mayela na nokuthola isiyeleliso.