And that if he’s not interested in that, you would like to know because you may need to move on. Tell him you’re not going to nag or bother him about it every day, but I want you to think about it, seriously, because I will need to know so I can make my own decisions. It’s not an ultimatum or a complaint.nd that if he’s not interested in that, you would like to know because you may need to move on. Tell him you’re not going to nag or bother him about it every day, but I want you to think about it, seriously, because I will need to know so I can make my own decisions. It’s not an ultimatum or a complaint.