if you filed a police report then yes he will be notified because the police have to get his side of the story and by law he has to be notified.... no, they don't just for a police report, unless you actually take him to court, or charges were filed. Then he would get a notice of appearance. The police report just puts proof of past incidences to use if it ever makes its way to court. Source(s): well, I get thumbs down, but I have been there---when my ex kidnapped my daughter from me and I couldn't do a thing about it!!