The short answer is – ‘no’. You are never forced to sell your home to pay the bond or deposit. The nursing home must give you the option of paying the outstanding deposit by way of regular monthly payments, rather than an upfront lump sum.The technical term for using this method of payment is Daily Accommodation Payment (DAP).he short answer is – ‘no’. You are never forced to sell your home to pay the bond or deposit. The nursing home must give you the option of paying the outstanding deposit by way of regular monthly payments, rather than an upfront lump sum.