To reach a stunning climax do not be shy to give yourself a hand. It is a fact that only 30% of women reach climax through penetration. You are not abnormal so give yourself a hand as he penetrates through.Reach down for your clitoris and service it squarely.Do not let him hurry foreplay. Guys can go from zero arousal to orgasm in five minutes.o reach a stunning climax, do not give mercy fakes. This is a term used to refer to the act of faking orgasms. If you let your partner think that he is hitting it when he is falling short, you are being unfair to yourself.