DePrimo guided Kelley through the Connecticut state law regarding surrogacy. In the state, a gestational carrier that is biologically unrelated to the child has no parental rights. After Baby S was born, in Connecticut, she would be placed in foster care.For Kelley, this was not an option.She will be lost to me forever, Kelley wrote in a March 2012 blog post.n the state, a gestational carrier that is biologically unrelated to the child has no parental rights. After Baby S was born, in Connecticut, she would be placed in foster care. For Kelley, this was not an option.