Marcy I completely agree with you, and I have years of online dating experience (now in my early 50s). First of all, we’re not talking about making new friends and backgammon buddies here, we’re talking about people who are paying thousands of dollars to meet a person who can be their friend, partner and, in most cases, lover. Sex is *very* important to some people, to others, not so much. The information about limited sexual function could be a dealbreaker from the get go, and it wouldn’t mean the person declining the connection is judgmental or superficial. Secondly, if a person is paying thousands of dollars and is given a llimited number of matches, the lack of disclosure of something that could of an immediate dealbreaker could (literally) cost them, either money or another introduction that could be “the one” for them. It’s not fair to withhold the information. Disclosing it could help in the matchmaking process too. I personally don’t a man with erectile issues, but he could be perfect for a woman who can’t tolerate penetration.

Marcy I completely agree with you, and I have years of online dating experience (now in my early 50s). First of all, we’re not talking about making new friends and backgammon buddies here, we’re talking about people who are paying thousands of dollars to meet a person who can be their friend, partner and, in most cases, lover. Sex is *very* important to some people, to others, not so much. The information about limited sexual function could be a dealbreaker from the get go, and it wouldn’t mean the person declining the connection is judgmental or superficial. Secondly, if a person is paying thousands of dollars and is given a llimited number of matches, the lack of disclosure of something that could of an immediate dealbreaker could (literally) cost them, either money or another introduction that could be “the one” for them. It’s not fair to withhold the information. Disclosing it could help in the matchmaking process too. I personally don’t a man with erectile issues, but he could be perfect for a woman who can’t tolerate penetration.

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