For LW2: Don't involve other family members (which sounds gossipy and intrusive) and don't lean into the adoption angle. One time, and one time only, LW2 should follow up on the tearful phone call with the prospective mom to ask, "Are you sure this is the right time to consider expanding your family? I'm always here as a sounding board if you want to talk more." And, if the sister is not receptive, drop it. The agency looks out for the child's interest; the larger extended family does not get a say in this couple's family making plans.

For LW2: Don't involve other family members (which sounds gossipy and intrusive) and don't lean into the adoption angle. One time, and one time only, LW2 should follow up on the tearful phone call with the prospective mom to ask, "Are you sure this is the right time to consider expanding your family? I'm always here as a sounding board if you want to talk more." And, if the sister is not receptive, drop it. The agency looks out for the child's interest; the larger extended family does not get a say in this couple's family making plans.

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