My 2c:  Letter 1:  Tell the service about your medical issues, now.  Not so much to "warn" others but to protect YOURSELF.  You shouldn't have to be an example to "convince" someone that they "should" accept someone with your medical/sexual health issues.  Your body is not someone else's learning experience.  Period, full stop.  All that NOT disclosing would do, in all likelihood, is piss off someone who paid $10K for 5 intros and one of them isn't a potential sexual partner in their eyes.  That would make you feel bad, and you don't need that.  Letter 2:  Let it slide.  You didn't have any formal contract written up, etc.  In the absence of that, if you really still want this couple's friendship, let it go.  I have a friend whom I have loaned money to on and off over the years.  He always paid me back after each time, in short order once he got paid -- but now I'm sitting here waiting for a little under $300 back for over a year.  I'm not bringing it up anymore, but the next time he asks, the answer is no.  Similarly, you don't have to give this couple another dime, but if they haven't thought about paying you pack since their fortunes turned, they are not likely to do so in the future.

My 2c:  Letter 1:  Tell the service about your medical issues, now.  Not so much to "warn" others but to protect YOURSELF.  You shouldn't have to be an example to "convince" someone that they "should" accept someone with your medical/sexual health issues.  Your body is not someone else's learning experience.  Period, full stop.  All that NOT disclosing would do, in all likelihood, is piss off someone who paid $10K for 5 intros and one of them isn't a potential sexual partner in their eyes.  That would make you feel bad, and you don't need that.  Letter 2:  Let it slide.  You didn't have any formal contract written up, etc.  In the absence of that, if you really still want this couple's friendship, let it go.  I have a friend whom I have loaned money to on and off over the years.  He always paid me back after each time, in short order once he got paid -- but now I'm sitting here waiting for a little under $300 back for over a year.  I'm not bringing it up anymore, but the next time he asks, the answer is no.  Similarly, you don't have to give this couple another dime, but if they haven't thought about paying you pack since their fortunes turned, they are not likely to do so in the future.

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