▁They ▁also ▁have ▁various ▁rit uals , ▁such ▁as ▁the ▁rit uals ▁for ▁court ship ▁and ▁marriage ▁and ▁death ▁and ▁bur ial . ▁The ▁court ship ▁and ▁marriage ▁process ▁of ▁the ▁Northern ▁K ank ana - e ys ▁starts ▁with ▁the ▁man ▁visit ing ▁the ▁woman ▁of ▁his ▁choice ▁and ▁singing ▁( day - eng ), ▁or ▁ser en ading ▁her ▁using ▁an ▁aw iding ▁( h arp ), ▁pan pipe ▁( di w - as ), ▁or ▁a ▁nose ▁fl ute ▁( k ale ll eng ). ▁If ▁the ▁parents ▁agree ▁to ▁their ▁marriage , ▁they ▁exchange ▁work ▁for ▁a ▁day ▁( d ok - ong ▁and ▁ob - ob bo ), ▁i . e . ▁the ▁man ▁brings ▁logs ▁or ▁bund led ▁fire wood ▁as ▁a ▁sign ▁of ▁his ▁sin cer ity , ▁the ▁woman ▁works ▁on ▁the ▁man ’ s ▁father ’ s ▁field ▁with ▁a ▁female ▁friend . ▁They ▁then ▁under go ▁the ▁pre lim inary ▁marriage ▁rit ual ▁( pas ya ) ▁and ▁exchange ▁food . ▁Then ▁comes ▁the ▁marriage ▁celebr ation ▁itself ▁( da w ak / bay as ) in clus ive ▁of ▁the ▁seg ep ▁( which ▁means ▁to ▁enter ), ▁pak de ▁( s ac rifice ), ▁bet bet ▁( but ch ering ▁of ▁p ig ▁for ▁om ens ), ▁play og / kol ay ▁( mar riage ▁ceremony ▁proper ), ▁te by ag ▁( mer ry making ), ▁mens up ot ▁( g ift ▁giving ), ▁se k at ▁di ▁t aw id