▁from ▁the ▁San ▁Francisco ▁Bay ▁area ▁of ▁California . ▁He ▁attended ▁high ▁school ▁at ▁the ▁Arthur ▁Anders en ▁Community ▁Learning ▁Center ▁in ▁Al amed a ▁and ▁college ▁at ▁Wes ley an ▁University ▁in ▁M idd let own , ▁Connecticut , ▁where ▁he ▁earned ▁a ▁b ach elor ' s ▁degree ▁in ▁English . ▁While ▁at ▁Wes ley an , ▁V az quez ▁played ▁drums ▁for ▁the ▁band ▁La ▁Sp anka ▁and ▁formed ▁the ▁group ▁Boy ▁Cris is . ▁At ▁Wes ley an , ▁V az quez ▁met ▁future ▁Das ▁R ac ist ▁band mate ▁Him ans hu ▁S uri ▁as ▁well ▁as ▁Andrew ▁Van W y ng arden ▁of ▁M G MT . ▁In ▁early ▁ 2 0 1 4 , ▁V az quez ▁married ▁S aba ▁Mo e el , ▁known ▁by ▁her ▁stage ▁name ▁Cult ▁Days , ▁a ▁fashion ▁designer ▁and ▁music ian ▁he ▁had ▁known ▁since ▁he ▁was ▁ 1 5 . ▁They ▁now ▁have ▁a ▁child , ▁whom ▁V az quez ▁wrote ▁about ▁in ▁his ▁column ▁in ▁Vice ▁ ▁magazine . ▁Mo e el ▁and ▁V az quez ▁have ▁since ▁separated , ▁and ▁she ▁has ▁accused ▁him ▁of ▁sex ually ▁assault ing ▁her . ▁In ▁December ▁ 2 0 1 8 , ▁Mo e el ▁and ▁three ▁other ▁women ▁spoke ▁with ▁P itch f ork ▁about ▁V az quez ▁sex ually ▁assault ing ▁them ▁between ▁ 2 0 0 6 ▁and ▁ 2 0 1 5 . ▁V az quez ▁told ▁P itch f ork ▁that ▁his ▁memory ▁of