▁Despite ▁feeling ▁abandoned ▁by ▁the ▁only ▁woman ▁she ▁lov es , ▁Norm a ▁cho oses ▁to ▁remain ▁at ▁the ▁Gall ag her ▁house , ▁having ▁grown ▁attached ▁to ▁most ▁of ▁the ▁family ▁however , ▁her ▁departure ▁from ▁the ▁show ▁is ▁un exp la ined . ▁Norm a ▁appeared ▁in ▁ 3 8 ▁episodes ▁in ▁total . ▁ ▁L ill ian ▁Ty ler ▁▁ ▁Play ed ▁by : ▁Alice ▁Barry ▁( Series ▁ 2 – 1 1 ) ▁ ▁L ill ian ▁Ty ler ▁( born ▁ 1 9 4 7 , ▁but ▁when ▁The ▁J ockey ▁was ▁to ▁be ▁blow n ▁up ▁in ▁series ▁ 7 , ▁L ill ian ' s ▁year ▁of ▁birth ▁was ▁shown ▁as ▁ 1 8 7 0 ), ▁is ▁a ▁local ▁busy - body . ▁She ▁had ▁an ▁affair ▁with ▁her ▁friend ▁Carol ▁Fish er ' s ▁( Mar jor ie ▁Y ates ) ▁husband ▁in ▁the ▁ 1 9 7 0 s , ▁which ▁results ▁in ▁a ▁cat f ight ▁in ▁The ▁J ockey . ▁Her ▁husband , ▁Br end an ▁Ty ler , ▁was ▁accident ally ▁shot ▁dead ▁by ▁Carl ▁Gall ag her ▁( El li ott ▁T itt ensor ). ▁As ▁of ▁series ▁ 5 , ▁L ill ian ▁has ▁appeared ▁much ▁more ▁in ▁the ▁show , ▁even ▁becoming ▁narr ator ▁for ▁episode ▁ 7 . ▁L ill ian ▁also ▁runs ▁a ▁bro th el ▁at ▁her ▁home , ▁a ▁means ▁to ▁making ▁easy ▁money , ▁after ▁Kelly ▁Mag u ire ▁( S ally