▁Made ▁Simple : ▁Road ▁Map , ▁Results , ▁and ▁R ew ards , ▁ 2 0 0 8 I ▁Don ' t ▁Get ▁Wh ol eness ... ▁That ' s ▁the ▁Problem : ▁M aking ▁Rel ations hips ▁Work , ▁ 2 0 0 8 D are ▁to ▁Dream : ▁Under stand ▁God ' s ▁Design ▁for ▁Your ▁Life , ▁ 2 0 1 7 Something ▁Gre ater : ▁F inding ▁Tri umph ▁over ▁Tri als , ▁ 2 0 1 9 ▁ ▁Personal ▁life ▁ ▁Mar ri ages ▁and ▁relationships ▁White ▁has ▁been ▁married ▁three ▁times . ▁▁ ▁Her ▁first ▁marriage ▁was ▁as ▁a ▁te en ager . ▁Pa ula ▁became ▁pre gn ant ▁the ▁year ▁after ▁converting ▁to ▁Christian ity . ▁She ▁and ▁the ▁father , ▁local ▁music ian ▁Dean ▁Knight , ▁married ▁in ▁ 1 9 8 5 ; ▁they ▁divor ced ▁in ▁ 1 9 8 9 . ▁ ▁Pa ula ▁met ▁associate ▁past or ▁R andy ▁White ▁in ▁ 1 9 8 7 ▁while ▁att ending ▁Dam asc us ▁Church ▁of ▁God ▁ ▁in ▁Maryland ,   which ▁was ▁head ed ▁by ▁his ▁father . ▁According ▁to ▁the ▁book ▁Holy ▁Ma ver icks , ▁meeting ▁this ▁third - gener ation ▁pre acher ▁was ▁a ▁turning ▁point ▁in ▁her ▁life . ▁The ▁two ▁divor ced ▁their ▁sp ouses ▁in ▁ 1 9 8 9 ▁and ▁married ▁each ▁other ▁a ▁year ▁later , ▁Pa ula ▁becoming ▁step - m other ▁to ▁his ▁children . ▁ ▁Short ly ▁there after ▁they