▁causes ▁her ▁person ality ▁to ▁change ▁dr ast ically . ▁She ▁turns ▁more ▁forg iving ▁and ▁eventually ▁lear ns ▁to ▁accept ▁Y ip ing ▁as ▁part ▁of ▁her ▁family ▁later ▁after ▁the ▁death ▁of ▁her ▁father ▁she ▁lived ▁with ▁Y ip ing , ▁W en pe i , ▁Li ▁F ug uan , ▁Li ▁sa o , ▁Key un ▁in ▁the ▁Lu ▁m ansion . ▁She ▁helped ▁took ▁care ▁of ▁the ▁or phan ed ▁children ▁whose ▁parents ▁were ▁killed ▁or ▁separated ▁during ▁the ▁war . ▁M eng ping ▁later ▁take ▁W en pe i ▁as ▁the ▁mother ▁figure ▁as ▁the ▁replacement ▁of ▁the ▁mother ▁who ▁left . ▁ ▁Li ▁Zh eng de ▁/ ▁Lieutenant ▁Li ▁ ▁( 李 正 德 ▁/ ▁ 李 <0xE5> <0x89> <0xAF> 官 ), ▁played ▁by ▁C ao ▁Q i ugen ▁One ▁of ▁Z hen h ua ' s ▁officers ▁and ▁most ▁trust ed ▁person , ▁Li ▁Zh eng de ▁is ▁also ▁a ▁retired ▁soldier ▁and ▁living ▁a ▁quiet ▁life ▁in ▁Shang hai . ▁Origin ally ▁he ▁was ▁an ▁as si ant ant ▁to ▁the ▁Lu ▁family , ▁Li ▁Zh eng de ▁and ▁his ▁family ▁left ▁after ▁discover ing ▁Key un ' s ▁pre gn ancy . ▁For ▁several ▁years , ▁Li ▁Zh eng de ▁and ▁his ▁family ▁were ▁finan cially ▁assist ed ▁by ▁Y ip ing ' s ▁mother , ▁W en pe i ▁despite ▁her ▁own ▁financial ▁difficulty . ▁Later ▁Y ip ing ▁take ▁a ▁job ▁as ▁a ▁song str ess ▁in ▁" Gr and ▁Shang hai