▁and ▁bet ray al . ▁Jackson ▁said , ▁" It ’ s ▁a ▁different ▁thing ▁for ▁me . ▁G row ing ▁up , ▁I ▁never ▁dated . ▁I ’ m ▁doing ▁that ▁now , ▁experien cing ▁that ▁whole ▁life ." ▁Its ▁up be at ▁tempo ▁intended ▁to ▁reflect ▁Jackson ' s ▁self - este em , ▁described ▁as ▁" a ▁work ▁in ▁progress ." ▁Jam ▁commented , ▁" She ▁doesn ' t ▁see ▁herself ▁the ▁way ▁other ▁people ▁see ▁her . ▁You ▁know ... g orge ous ▁and ▁se xy ▁and ▁all ▁that . ▁That ▁isn ' t ▁the ▁kind ▁of ▁person ▁she ▁is . ▁Although ▁she ▁is ▁closer ▁to ▁feeling ▁like ▁that ▁person ▁now ▁than ▁she ▁was ▁ 1 5 ▁years ▁ago . ▁Or ▁even ▁three ▁of ▁four ▁years ▁ago ." ▁Jackson ▁commented , ▁" I ▁look ▁back ▁at ▁pictures ▁of ▁myself ▁from ▁four ▁years ▁ago ▁and ▁I ▁see ▁the ▁unh app iness ▁in ▁my ▁eyes . ▁But ▁I ' m ▁in ▁the ▁greatest ▁space ▁now ... ▁I ▁believe ▁we ▁have ▁choices ▁and ▁paths , ▁and ▁it ' s ▁about ▁choosing ▁the ▁right ▁path , ▁the ▁prom ising ▁path ." ▁While ▁recording , ▁Jackson ▁listened ▁to ▁artists ▁such ▁as ▁St . ▁Germ ain , ▁Bu ena ▁V ista ▁Social ▁Club , ▁Th ie very ▁Corporation , ▁Bas ement ▁J ax x , ▁Out k ast ▁and ▁Papa ▁Ro ach . ▁ ▁John ▁Mul vey ▁of ▁Y ahoo ! ▁Music ▁noted , ▁" All ▁For ▁You ▁is ▁a ▁concept ▁album ▁of ▁sorts ,