flu ences ▁Frank ie ▁Ban ali ' s ▁main ▁influ ences ▁include ▁John ▁Bon ham ▁( rock ▁drum ming ), ▁Bud dy ▁Rich , ▁( trad itional ▁Jazz ▁drum ming ), ▁Simon ▁Phill ips , ▁Dennis ▁Ch amb ers , ▁and ▁V inn ie ▁Col ai uta . ▁ ▁Personal ▁life ▁Frank ie ' s ▁father , ▁Jack , ▁died ▁from ▁pan cre atic ▁cancer ▁in ▁ 1 9 7 4 . ▁ ▁Frank ie ' s ▁mother , ▁Mar tha , ▁died ▁after ▁an ▁eight - year ▁battle ▁with ▁breast ▁cancer , ▁on ▁November ▁ 1 4 , ▁ 1 9 9 0 , ▁Frank ie ' s ▁ 3 9 th ▁birth day . ▁ ▁Frank ie ▁married ▁his ▁first ▁wife , ▁Kar en ▁( born ▁January ▁ 2 0 , ▁ 1 9 6 9 ), ▁in ▁ 1 9 9 4 . ▁On ▁February ▁ 1 7 , ▁ 1 9 9 7 , ▁his ▁daughter , ▁Ash ley , ▁was ▁born . ▁On ▁April ▁ 1 4 , ▁ 2 0 0 9 , ▁Kar en ▁died ▁from ▁heart ▁failure ▁at ▁the ▁age ▁of ▁ 4 0 . ▁ ▁On ▁November ▁ 1 1 , ▁ 2 0 1 5 , ▁Frank ie ▁married ▁his ▁second ▁and ▁current ▁wife ▁Regin a ▁Russell ▁Ban ali , ▁who ▁produced ▁and ▁directed ▁a ▁document ary ▁about ▁Qu iet ▁Ri ot ▁called ▁Qu iet ▁Ri ot ▁- ▁Well ▁Now ▁You ' re ▁Here ▁There ' s ▁No ▁Way ▁Back . ▁ ▁In