al ▁sex , ▁and ▁anal ▁sex , ▁which ▁they ▁claim ▁took ▁place ▁at ▁his ▁home , ▁Never land ▁R anch , ▁and ▁other ▁locations . ▁ ▁The ▁two ▁men ▁say ▁that ▁these ▁acts ▁were ▁regarded ▁as ▁" rom antic " ▁and ▁did ▁not ▁realize ▁they ▁were ▁in app ropri ate ▁until ▁ad ul th ood . ▁Sa fe ch uck ▁says ▁Jackson ▁once ▁took ▁him ▁sho pping ▁for ▁an ▁eng agement ▁ring ▁( which ▁he ▁kept ▁as ▁memor abil ia ) ▁and ▁later ▁held ▁a ▁mock ▁wed ding . ▁He ▁began ▁ther apy ▁in ▁ 2 0 1 3 ▁and ▁re called ▁his ▁tra uma ▁for ▁the ▁first ▁time . ▁Steph anie ▁Sa fe ch uck , ▁his ▁mother , ▁describes ▁feeling ▁el ated ▁and ▁dan cing ▁when ▁Jackson ▁died ▁in ▁ 2 0 0 9 . ▁Rob son ▁says ▁Jackson ▁told ▁him ▁to ▁dist rust ▁women . ▁Both ▁men ▁claimed ▁that ▁Jackson ▁tried ▁pushing ▁them ▁away ▁from ▁their ▁families ▁and ▁" bra in w ash ing " ▁them . ▁Jackson ▁alleg edly ▁sent ▁the ▁two ▁men ▁" lo ve ▁letters " ▁and ▁set ▁up ▁security ▁systems ▁at ▁Never land ▁to ▁prevent ▁other ▁people ▁from ▁witness ing ▁their ▁sexual ▁acts . ▁ ▁Sa fe ch uck ▁says ▁Jackson ▁eventually ▁replaced ▁him ▁with ▁Bre tt ▁Bar nes , ▁and ▁Rob son ▁says ▁he ▁was ▁replaced ▁by ▁actor ▁Mac a ul ay ▁C ul kin ▁because ▁Jackson ▁preferred ▁pre pub es cent ▁boys . ▁Rob son ▁says ▁he ▁was ▁given ▁Jackson ▁memor abil ia ▁as