▁a ▁bed ▁that ▁don ' t ▁belong ▁to ▁me ”. ▁She ▁express es ▁pain ▁with ▁the ▁lyr ics ▁" See ▁my ▁baby ' s ▁like ▁a ▁dream , ▁but ▁the ▁other ▁man , ▁he ▁ha un ts ▁me ". ▁Other ▁lyr ics ▁also ▁include : ▁" I ' m ▁still ▁w aking ▁up ▁in ▁a ▁bed ▁that ▁don ' t ▁belong ▁to ▁me ... I ▁thought ▁about ▁the ▁cost , ▁but ▁it ' s ▁a ▁price ▁I ' m ▁willing ▁to ▁pay ." ▁ ▁B ree zy ▁question ed ▁if ▁the ▁song ' s ▁content ▁was ▁inspired ▁by ▁Fant asia ' s ▁past ▁affair ▁with ▁a ▁married ▁man . ▁The ▁singer ▁explained ▁that ▁the ▁single ▁was ▁about ▁self - lo ve , ▁saying : ▁" My ▁song ▁tal ks ▁about ▁all ▁the ▁bad ▁relationships ▁but ▁I ' m ▁grateful ▁for ▁going ▁through ▁them ." ▁Fant asia ▁compared ▁" S leep ing ▁with ▁the ▁One ▁I ▁Love " ▁ ▁to ▁her ▁ 2 0 0 5 ▁single ▁" Free ▁Your self ", ▁explaining ▁that ▁they ▁both ▁have ▁" that ▁g rit ty , ▁bl ues y ▁feeling ". ▁Am ber ▁McK yn zie ▁described ▁the ▁main ▁theme ▁of ▁the ▁song ▁as ▁" what ▁it ’ s ▁like ▁to ▁love ▁hard ▁and ▁not ▁get ▁the ▁same ▁love ▁in ▁return ". ▁Cent ric ' s ▁Ger ren ▁Keith ▁Gay nor ▁felt ▁that ▁Fant asia ▁was ▁channel ing ▁James ▁Brown ' s ▁ 1 9 6 6 ▁song ▁" It ' s ▁a ▁Man ' s ▁Man