▁rep ▁denied ▁it ▁following ▁his ▁arrest , ▁the ▁spec ulation ▁came ▁to ▁an ▁end ▁on ▁November ▁ 2 0 , ▁ 2 0 1 4 , ▁in ▁an ▁interview ▁with ▁People ▁magazine , ▁Her nd on ▁came ▁out ▁as ▁a ▁gay ▁man , ▁and ▁stated ▁that ▁he ▁had ▁been ▁in ▁a ▁relationship ▁for ▁a ▁few ▁years ▁with ▁Matt ▁Coll um . ▁When ▁asked ▁if ▁his ▁two ▁ex - w ives ▁knew ▁of ▁his ▁sexual ity , ▁Her nd on ▁confirmed ▁that ▁they ▁" ab sol utely " ▁knew . ▁In ▁relation ▁to ▁this , ▁Her nd on ▁re - iss ued ▁" What ▁M atter ed ▁Most " ▁in ▁June ▁ 2 0 1 9 ▁with ▁the ▁song ' s ▁pron oun s ▁changed ▁to ▁reflect ▁a ▁gay ▁relationship . ▁He ▁noted ▁that ▁he ▁had ▁been ▁in ▁a ▁clos et ed ▁relationship ▁with ▁another ▁male ▁at ▁the ▁time ▁of ▁the ▁original ' s ▁release . ▁ ▁Disc ography ▁▁ ▁What ▁M atter ed ▁Most ▁( 1 9 9 5 ) ▁ ▁Living ▁in ▁a ▁M oment ▁( 1 9 9 6 ) ▁ ▁Big ▁Hop es ▁( 1 9 9 8 ) ▁ ▁Ste am ▁( 1 9 9 9 ) ▁ ▁Right ▁About ▁Now ▁( 2 0 0 7 ) ▁ ▁J our ney ▁On ▁( 2 0 1 0 ) ▁ ▁L ies ▁I ▁T old ▁Mys elf ▁( 2 0 1 3 ) ▁ ▁House ▁on ▁Fire ▁( 2 0 1 6 ) ▁ ▁Got ▁It ▁Cover ed '' ▁(