mar riage " ▁by ▁one ▁of ▁the ▁adult ▁men ▁of ▁the ▁family . ▁She ▁witness ed ▁a ▁friend ▁cry ing ▁after ▁being ▁" ch osen " ▁for ▁L yman , ▁saying ▁" that ▁she ▁didn ’ t ▁want ▁to ▁have ▁sex ▁with ▁L yman ▁but ▁knew ▁that ▁soon ▁she ▁would ▁have ▁to ". ▁Turner ▁also ▁states ▁that ▁the ▁group ▁believed ▁" the ▁world ▁would ▁end ▁on ▁January ▁ 5 , ▁ 1 9 7 4 " ▁and ▁that ▁Family ▁members ▁should ▁prepare ▁to ▁be ▁taken ▁to ▁Ven us ▁via ▁U FO : ▁when ▁this ▁did ▁not ▁occur , ▁members ▁whose ▁" s ou ls ▁wer en ' t ▁ready " ▁were ▁bl amed ▁for ▁having ▁kept ▁L yman ▁from ▁particip ating ▁in ▁the ▁asc ension . ▁ ▁As ▁an ▁adult , ▁Turner ▁was ▁invited ▁to ▁return ▁to ▁the ▁Family ▁and ▁spent ▁several ▁days ▁visit ing ▁them ▁before ▁going ▁away ▁to ▁college . ▁She ▁rel ates ▁feeling ▁" a ▁sur ge ▁of ▁love ▁and ▁belonging " ▁in ▁the ▁comp ound ▁before ▁being ▁al ien ated ▁by ▁the ▁traditional ▁gender ▁roles . ▁Real izing ▁she ▁had ▁no ▁place ▁among ▁them , ▁she ▁left ▁for ▁good . ▁ ▁Death ▁In ▁the ▁mid - 1 9 8 0 s , ▁members ▁of ▁the ▁Fort ▁Hill ▁Community ▁announced ▁that ▁L yman ▁had ▁died ▁in ▁ 1 9 7 8 , ▁age ▁ 4 0 . ▁However , ▁as ▁writer ▁Ryan ▁Wal sh ▁notes , ▁the ▁community ▁" ne ver ▁presented ▁a ▁death ▁certificate , ▁provided ▁details ▁about ▁how