▁The ▁perm iss ive ▁society ▁ ▁With ▁the ▁sexual ▁revolution ▁of ▁the ▁later ▁tw enti eth ▁century , ▁much ▁that ▁Fre ud ▁had ▁argued ▁for ▁became ▁part ▁of ▁a ▁new , ▁wide - r anging ▁liberal ▁cons ensus , ▁a ▁quasi - norm ative ▁belief ▁that ▁" every one ' s ▁entitled ▁to ▁his ▁own ▁sex ▁life ... Some ▁people ▁fancy ▁black ▁rub ber ▁clothes . ▁Cons ent ing ▁adult s ▁and ▁all ▁that ". ▁At ▁times ▁this ▁might ▁lead ▁to ▁a ▁kind ▁of ▁P ang loss ian ▁world ▁view ▁where ▁every ▁fet ish ist ▁has ▁his ▁" f et ish era ▁... ▁for ▁every ▁man ▁who ▁is ▁hung ▁up ▁on ▁sho es , ▁there ▁is ▁a ▁woman ▁ready ▁to ▁c ater ▁for ▁and ▁gro ove ▁with ▁him , ▁and ▁for ▁every ▁man ▁who ▁gets ▁his ▁thr ills ▁from ▁hair , ▁there ▁is ▁a ▁woman ▁who ▁gets ▁hers ▁from ▁having ▁her ▁lo cks ▁ra ped . ▁H avel ock ▁Ell is ▁has ▁many ▁cases ▁of ▁this ▁meeting ▁of ▁the ▁minds : ▁the ▁man ▁who ▁year ns ▁to ▁get ▁pressed ▁on ▁by ▁high ▁he els ▁sooner ▁or ▁later ▁meets ▁the ▁woman ▁who ▁has ▁day d ream ed ▁all ▁her ▁life ▁of ▁he el - press ing ". ▁ ▁Where ▁internal ▁controvers y ▁did ▁arise ▁in ▁the ▁liberal ▁cons ensus ▁was ▁about ▁the ▁exact ▁relation ▁of ▁variations ▁to ▁normal ▁development ▁- ▁some ▁considering ▁in ▁the ▁w ake ▁of ▁Fre ud ▁that ▁" th ese ▁different ▁sexual ▁orient ations ▁can ▁best ▁be ▁explained ▁and ▁understood ▁by