ised ▁K wan ▁for ▁her ▁ability ▁to ▁" f lo [ w ] ▁easily ▁between ▁ha ug ht y ▁s oph istic ation ▁and ▁gir lish ▁in security ". ▁ ▁In ▁ 1 9 9 4 , ▁she ▁lived ▁with ▁her ▁second ▁husband , ▁film ▁distrib utor ▁David ▁G iler , ▁and ▁her ▁son , ▁Bern ie , ▁in ▁a ▁B ever ly ▁Hills ▁house . ▁She ▁preserved ▁her ▁" dan cer ' s ▁figure " ▁through ▁the ▁Chinese ▁mart ial ▁art ▁t ai ▁chi ▁she ▁dear ly ▁enjoyed ▁and ▁frequent ▁dance ▁sessions . ▁That ▁year , ▁she ▁assumed ▁the ▁role ▁of ▁ 5 2 - year - old ▁Mar tha ▁in ▁Singapore ▁Re pert ory ▁Theatre ' s ▁showing ▁of ▁Who ' s ▁Af raid ▁of ▁Virginia ▁W ool f ?, ▁an ▁" int ense ▁psych ological ▁play " ▁by ▁Edward ▁Al be e . ▁ ▁Ar ound ▁ 1 9 9 4 , ▁her ▁husband ▁and ▁she ▁produced ▁the ▁feature ▁film ▁B iker ▁Po et . ▁Bern ie ▁was ▁the ▁director ▁and ▁an ▁actor ▁in ▁the ▁film . ▁ ▁In ▁ 1 9 9 6 , ▁when ▁he ▁was ▁ 3 3 , ▁K wan ' s ▁son , ▁Bern ie , ▁died ▁after ▁contract ing ▁A ID S ▁from ▁his ▁girl friend ▁whom ▁K wan ▁had ▁ca ution ed ▁him ▁to ▁avoid . ▁Four ▁years ▁after ▁his ▁death , ▁poet ▁and ▁actress ▁Am ber ▁Tamb lyn ▁compiled ▁her ▁debut ▁poetry ▁book ▁Of ▁the ▁Da wn ▁and ▁dedicated ▁it ▁to ▁P