ges ; ▁and ▁Dam ski ▁would ▁write , ▁again , ▁in ▁ 1 9 9 2 ▁about ▁an ▁attempt ▁to ▁re try ▁E y ler ▁( see ▁Wind y ▁City ▁Times ▁section , ▁below ). ▁ ▁Gay ▁related ▁imm une ▁def ic iency ▁( GR ID ) ▁- ▁what ▁was ▁later ▁to ▁be ▁renamed ▁A ID S ▁- ▁was ▁first ▁written ▁about ▁by ▁Dam ski ▁while ▁at ▁Gay Life . ▁He ▁also ▁continued ▁his ▁uns par ing ▁critique ▁of ▁Chicago ' s ▁main stream ▁press ▁accounts ▁of ▁any ▁and ▁all ▁things ▁gay ▁and ▁les bian . J on - Hen ri ▁Dam ski , ▁" More ▁cr imes ▁in ▁crime ▁reporting ," ▁Gay Life , ▁December ▁ 9 , ▁ 1 9 8 2 ▁( J on - Hen ri ▁Dam ski ▁Archive ) ▁And ▁he ▁continued ▁to ▁write ▁with ▁humor , ▁insight ▁plus ▁a ▁little ▁Class ics ▁scholar ship ▁thrown ▁in ; ▁two ▁ex cer pts ▁from ▁ 1 9 8 3 ' s ▁" Why ▁Men ▁Go ▁to ▁Gay ▁B ars " ▁provide ▁a ▁sample . ▁First , ▁he ▁sets ▁up ▁the ▁situation : ▁" You ▁cannot , ▁however , ▁reduce ▁the ▁soci ology ▁of ▁gay ▁bars ▁to ▁a ▁single ▁sex ▁score . ▁The ▁most ▁pain ful ▁life ▁experience ▁for ▁most ▁gay ▁men ▁occurs ▁right ▁before ▁' coming ▁out ' ▁when ▁you ▁think ▁you ▁are ▁the ▁only ▁gay ▁person ▁in ▁the ▁world . ▁You ▁feel ▁dis member ed ▁and ▁cut ▁off ▁from ▁everyone . ▁You ▁feel ▁so ▁alone ▁and ▁isolated ▁in