bul ent ▁family ▁life ▁and ▁personal ▁relationships ▁also ▁been ▁highly ▁public ized ▁and ▁documented . ▁ ▁Early ▁life ▁ ▁Family ▁and ▁child hood ▁L oh an ' s ▁father , ▁Michael , ▁served ▁j ail ▁time ▁in ▁a ▁stock ▁fra ud ▁case ▁when ▁L oh an ▁was ▁four ▁years ▁old , ▁and ▁has ▁been ▁arrested ▁almost ▁a ▁dozen ▁times . ▁L oh an ▁spoke ▁about ▁her ▁tur bul ent ▁child hood ▁in ▁ 2 0 0 7 , ▁the ▁same ▁year ▁her ▁parents ▁final ized ▁their ▁divor ce : ▁" I ▁feel ▁like ▁a ▁second ▁parent ▁in ▁the ▁sense ▁that ▁I ▁helped ▁raise ▁my ▁family ... ▁I ▁was ▁put ▁between ▁my ▁mother ▁and ▁father ▁a ▁lot ." ▁Despite ▁the ▁conflicts , ▁L oh an ▁spoke ▁very ▁fond ly ▁of ▁her ▁family . ▁However , ▁in ▁ 2 0 0 7 , ▁ 2 0 0 8 ▁and ▁ 2 0 0 9 ▁she ▁admitted ▁that ▁she ▁had ▁cut ▁off ▁contact ▁with ▁her ▁father , ▁describing ▁his ▁behavior ▁as ▁un predict able ▁and ▁hard ▁to ▁deal ▁with . ▁ ▁After ▁a ▁fight ▁with ▁her ▁mother , ▁D ina , ▁in ▁ 2 0 1 2 , ▁L oh an ▁had ▁called ▁her ▁father ▁in ▁a ▁fr antic ▁episode , ▁ins isting ▁that ▁her ▁mother ▁was ▁on ▁c oca ine ▁like ▁" a ▁cra zy ▁person ", ▁according ▁to ▁her . ▁Her ▁father ▁evidently ▁recorded ▁the ▁call ▁and ▁released ▁it ▁to ▁the ▁tab lo ids . ▁The ▁t ape ▁subsequently ▁went ▁vir al ▁and ▁gained