▁( disambiguation ) ▁T ie lem ans ▁T il man ▁T yl man ▁ ▁Category : D utch ▁mascul ine ▁given ▁names ▁Category : Pat ron ym ic ▁s urn ames <0x0A> </s> ▁R uda ▁ ▁is ▁a ▁village ▁in ▁the ▁administrative ▁district ▁of ▁G mina ▁Gra j ew o , ▁within ▁Gra j ew o ▁County , ▁Pod l ask ie ▁Vo iv odes hip , ▁in ▁north - e astern ▁Poland . ▁It ▁lies ▁approximately ▁ ▁south - east ▁of ▁Gra j ew o ▁and ▁ ▁north - west ▁of ▁the ▁regional ▁capital ▁B iał yst ok . ▁ ▁References ▁ ▁R uda <0x0A> </s> ▁R andy ▁Phill ips ▁( born ▁May ▁ 8 , ▁ 1 9 9 0 ) ▁is ▁an ▁air man ▁of ▁the ▁United ▁States ▁Air ▁Force ▁whose ▁coming ▁out ▁in ▁September ▁ 2 0 1 1 ▁following ▁the ▁repe al ▁of ▁the ▁" Don ' t ▁ask , ▁don ' t ▁tell " ▁policy ▁( D AD T ) ▁gar ner ed ▁media ▁attention . ▁D AD T ▁had ▁b anned ▁the ▁service ▁of ▁open ly ▁gay ▁members ▁in ▁the ▁United ▁States ▁Ar med ▁Forces ▁and ▁Phill ips ▁used ▁YouTube , ▁under ▁the ▁alias ▁" Are You Su pr ised ", ▁to ▁an onym ously ▁seek ▁support ▁and ▁to ▁document ▁his ▁life ▁under ▁the ▁policy ▁over ▁several ▁months . ▁His ▁videos ▁included ▁his ▁coming ▁out ▁to ▁his ▁father ▁and ▁mother , ▁which ▁coinc ided ▁with ▁Phill ips ▁showing ▁his ▁face ▁for ▁the ▁first ▁time , ▁and