etto ▁for ▁suitable ▁men ▁with ▁" S old ier ", ▁an ▁" ode ▁to ▁gang sta ▁love ". ▁Core y ▁M oss ▁of ▁MTV ▁felt ▁that ▁the ▁song ▁was ▁one ▁of ▁the ▁most ▁personal ▁moments ▁on ▁Dest iny ▁Ful filled ▁in ▁the ▁sense ▁that ▁Bey on cé ' s ▁then - rel atively ▁secret ▁relationship ▁with ▁ra pper ▁Jay - Z ▁was ▁acknowled ged ▁" on ▁record ▁for ▁the ▁first ▁time ". ▁M oss ▁further ▁elabor ated , ▁" Al beit ▁minor , ▁her ▁[ B ey on cé ' s ] ▁verse ▁( about ▁falling ▁for ▁a ▁gu y ▁from ▁the ▁B K , ▁as ▁in ▁Jay ' s ▁Brook lyn ▁st om ping ▁grounds ) ▁offers ▁a ▁rare ▁moment ▁of ▁comment ary ▁on ▁the ▁couple , ▁which ▁has ▁thus ▁far ▁only ▁been ▁chron ic led ▁by ▁tab lo id ▁photograph ers ." ▁The ▁song ▁opens ▁with ▁T . I . ▁rh ym ing ▁lines ▁and ▁gl or ifying ▁the ▁prof ound ▁love ▁" between ▁a ▁th ug ▁and ▁a ▁th u get te ". ▁As ▁the ▁song ▁progress es , ▁each ▁member ▁of ▁Dest iny ' s ▁Child ▁describes ▁their ▁own ▁favorite ▁type ▁of ▁man , ▁later ▁harm on izing ▁together ▁for ▁the ▁ch orus . ▁Mid way ▁through ▁the ▁song , ▁Lil ▁Wayne ' s ▁verse ▁contains ▁a ▁reference ▁to ▁ra pper ▁B . G .. ▁Williams ▁is ▁the ▁last ▁artist ▁to ▁sing ▁her ▁solo ▁lines , ▁which ▁were ▁described ▁as ▁" the ▁se xi est " ▁by ▁R ash