▁the ▁slight est ▁criticism . ▁Bl ame ▁sh ifts ▁when ▁account able . ▁▁ ▁Dim in ished ▁aw aren ess ▁of ▁the ▁dis son ance ▁between ▁their ▁expect ations ▁and ▁reality , ▁along ▁with ▁the ▁impact ▁this ▁has ▁on ▁relationships ▁ ▁O vert ▁presentation ▁of ▁grand io se ▁fant as ies , ▁wealth , ▁success , ▁and ▁status . ▁ ▁O bl iv ious ▁that ▁expect ations ▁of ▁ent it lement ▁( o vers p ending , ▁taking ▁advantage ) ▁may ▁make ▁a ▁poor ▁impression ▁on ▁other ▁people . ▁ ▁Conf lict ▁within ▁the ▁environment ▁is ▁generally ▁experienced ▁as ▁external ▁to ▁these ▁individuals ▁( i . e ., ▁not ▁their ▁fault ), ▁rather ▁than ▁as ▁a ▁measure ▁of ▁their ▁own ▁un real istic ▁expect ations ▁ ▁The ▁differences ▁between ▁grand io se ▁and ▁vulner able ▁n arc iss ist ▁sub types ▁have ▁been ▁studied ▁( D ick inson ▁& ▁P inc us , ▁ 2 0 0 3 ): ▁ ▁This ▁overall ▁finding ▁confir ms ▁past ▁theory ▁and ▁research ▁that ▁suggests ▁that ▁these ▁[ grand io se ▁sub type ] ▁individuals ▁lack ▁knowledge ▁of ▁the ▁impact ▁they ▁have ▁upon ▁others , ▁and ▁thus , ▁have ▁an ▁un real istic ▁view ▁of ▁themselves ▁in ▁relation ▁to ▁others ▁( G abb ard , ▁ 1 9 8 9 , ▁ 1 9 9 8 ; ▁K ern berg , ▁ 1 9 7 5 ; ▁Koh ut , ▁ 1 9 7 1 , ▁ 1 9 7 7 ). ▁Indeed , ▁this ▁very ▁lack