▁author ▁of ▁two ▁humor ▁books : ▁Fif ty ▁Sh ades ▁Of ▁Gay ▁and ▁Stra ight ▁People : ▁A ▁Sp ot ters ▁Guide , ▁as ▁well ▁as ▁the ▁young ▁adult ▁nov els ▁A ▁Very ▁Very ▁Bad ▁Th ing ▁and ▁ ▁Drag ▁Te en . ▁ ▁He ▁co - w rote , ▁produced , ▁and ▁star red ▁in ▁the ▁ind ie ▁horror / com edy ▁cult ▁hit ▁You ' re ▁K illing ▁Me . ▁He ▁was ▁the ▁host ▁of ▁the ▁MTV ▁series , ▁S cre am : ▁After ▁Dark , ▁a ▁talk ▁show ▁devoted ▁to ▁deleted ▁scenes ▁and ▁inter views ▁with ▁the ▁cast ▁of ▁the ▁popular ▁MTV ▁horror ▁series ▁S cre am . ▁He ▁currently ▁plays ▁Marc ▁Do ober ▁on ▁Search ▁Party ▁on ▁T BS . ▁ ▁Personal ▁life ▁Self ▁is ▁open ly ▁gay . ▁He ▁dated ▁Patrick ▁Mc Donald ▁of ▁Fire ▁Island ▁for ▁three ▁years ▁and ▁public ly ▁blog ged ▁about ▁their ▁break up . ▁On ▁January ▁ 8 , ▁ 2 0 1 7 , ▁Self ▁and ▁his ▁boy friend , ▁August us ▁P rew , ▁announced ▁their ▁eng agement ▁via ▁Inst agram . ▁They ▁were ▁married ▁on ▁January ▁ 1 3 , ▁ 2 0 1 8 ▁in ▁C ul ver ▁City , ▁California . ▁ ▁References ▁ ▁External ▁links ▁ ▁J ef fer y ▁Self ▁at ▁T um bl r ▁ ▁Category : American ▁male ▁television ▁actors ▁Category : L iving ▁people ▁Category : 1 9 8 7 ▁birth s ▁Category : G ay ▁actors ▁Category : G ay ▁writers ▁Category