. ▁in ▁French . ▁She ▁won ▁the ▁title ▁of ▁Miss ▁New ▁York ▁in ▁ 1 9 9 0 ▁and ▁participated ▁in ▁Miss ▁America ▁ 1 9 9 1 ▁on ▁September ▁ 7 , ▁ 1 9 9 0 . ▁On ▁April ▁ 1 8 , ▁ 2 0 1 0 , ▁The ▁New ▁York ▁Chapter ▁of ▁the ▁National ▁Academy ▁of ▁Television ▁Arts ▁and ▁Sciences ▁hon ored ▁Dem ler ▁with ▁the ▁New ▁York ▁Em my ▁Award ▁for ▁the ▁Best ▁News ▁An chor ▁- ▁On ▁Camera ▁Tal ent ▁category . ▁She ▁is ▁the ▁first ▁Buff alo - area ▁news ▁An chor ▁to ▁receive ▁the ▁Best ▁News ▁An chor ▁award . ▁She ▁has ▁been ▁the ▁Executive ▁Director ▁of ▁the ▁Miss ▁Buff alo ▁Page ant ▁for ▁several ▁years ▁( Miss ▁America ▁Pre lim inary ) ▁and ▁has ▁taken ▁her ▁title hold ers ▁to ▁Miss ▁New ▁York . ▁She ▁runs ▁the ▁Canal ▁Fest ▁Page ant ▁of ▁the ▁Ton aw andas ▁and ▁she ▁ran ▁the ▁Miss ▁Er ie ▁County ▁Fair ▁Page ant ▁for ▁several ▁years . ▁She ▁is ▁very ▁involved ▁in ▁community ▁service ▁and ▁is ▁an ▁award ▁winning ▁journalist . ▁She ▁has ▁been ▁voted ▁Western ▁New ▁York ' s ▁favorite ▁news ▁anchor ▁many ▁times . ▁▁ ▁She ▁does ▁her ▁hair ▁and ▁make up ▁herself ▁before ▁coming ▁on ▁air . ▁ ▁Dem ler ▁was ▁married ▁to ▁Nathan ▁Mart on ▁from ▁ 1 9 9 6 ▁to ▁ 2 0 1 3 . ▁She ▁dated ▁Joseph ▁Mur phy ▁from ▁ 2 0 1 5 ▁until ▁Mur phy ' s ▁unexpected ▁death