▁not ▁my ▁people ▁any ▁more ", ▁he ▁said . ▁" They ▁didn ' t ▁work . ▁They ▁didn ' t ▁behave ▁in ▁a ▁way ▁I ▁like . ▁I ' m ▁quite ▁a ▁self ish ▁person . ▁I ' m ▁wor ried ▁about ▁my ▁life ▁and ▁the ▁people ▁who ▁are ▁really ▁important ▁to ▁me ." ▁He ▁became ▁close ▁to ▁Daniel le ' s ▁son ▁from ▁a ▁previous ▁relationship , ▁Di eter ▁Schmidt , ▁and ▁adopted ▁him . ▁Smith ▁and ▁Sh a un ▁subsequently ▁recon ci led . ▁In ▁ 2 0 0 2 ▁he ▁and ▁Schmidt ▁w ound ▁up ▁in ▁court ▁in ▁a ▁dispute ▁over ▁assets ▁and ▁they ▁became ▁est r anged . ▁Smith : ▁" What ▁I ▁do , ▁and ▁I ▁know ▁it ' s ▁a ▁mistake ▁but ▁I ▁just ▁can ' t ▁help ▁myself , ▁is ▁I ▁get ▁into ▁a ▁relationship ▁and ▁I ▁just ▁want ▁to ▁give ▁that ▁person ▁everything ... ▁I ' m ▁over gener ous . ▁Then ▁if ▁they ▁turn ▁on ▁me , ▁I ▁cut ▁them ▁off , ▁it ' s ▁finished . ▁I ' m ▁not ▁the ▁easiest ▁gu y ▁in ▁the ▁world , ▁I ▁can ▁tell ▁you , ▁but ▁if ▁you ▁are ▁on side ▁with ▁me ▁you ▁can ▁have ▁everything , ▁I ' ll ▁lay ▁down ▁my ▁life ▁for ▁you , ▁you ▁can ▁go ▁and ▁help ▁yourself ▁to ▁the ▁bank ▁account ▁virt ually . ▁But ▁if ▁you ▁let ▁me ▁down , ▁then ▁by e - bye - black bird ." ▁ ▁He ▁has ▁homes ▁in ▁London , ▁Cape