▁which ▁said , ▁“ Look ▁up ▁at ▁the ▁sky ▁and ▁remember ▁me ▁on ▁the ▁day ▁I ▁died .” ▁This ▁is ▁evidence ▁that ▁S uther land ▁had ▁been ▁planning ▁on ▁dying ▁before ▁she ▁asked ▁Han ley ▁to ▁agree ▁to ▁a ▁suic ide ▁p act . ▁ ▁A ▁twenty - six - year - old ▁mother ▁of ▁three ▁from ▁Columb us , ▁Ohio ▁by ▁the ▁name ▁of ▁Ch else a ▁Mart ine z ▁was ▁reported ▁missing ▁by ▁her ▁husband ▁on ▁August ▁ 1 , ▁ 2 0 1 5 . ▁Not ▁long ▁after ▁making ▁the ▁report , ▁he ▁discovered ▁that ▁she ▁spent ▁much ▁of ▁her ▁time ▁ch atting ▁on ▁an ▁online ▁forum ▁called ▁the ▁Exper ience ▁Project . ▁Among st ▁that ▁discovery , ▁Mart ine z ’ s ▁husband ▁found ▁an ▁un sett ling ▁conversation ▁between ▁Mart ine z ▁and ▁another ▁user , ▁who ▁went ▁by ▁the ▁alias ▁of ▁“ D ark R yd 3 r ”. ▁She ▁conf ided ▁in ▁the ▁stranger ▁by ▁telling ▁him ▁that ▁she ▁had ▁been ▁wanting ▁to ▁die ▁for ▁a ▁long ▁time ▁but ▁was ▁too ▁sc ared ▁to ▁follow ▁through ▁with ▁it ▁herself . ▁Event ually , ▁they ▁discussed ▁the ▁process ▁in ▁which ▁he ▁will ▁kill ▁her . ▁Mart ine z ▁would ▁then ▁thank ▁him ▁for ▁finally ▁putting ▁her ▁mind ▁at ▁peace . ▁Her ▁car ▁was ▁soon ▁recovered ▁by ▁police ▁in ▁Far ib ault , ▁Minnesota ▁ 7 0 0 ▁miles ▁away , ▁an ▁ 1 1 . 5 - hour ▁drive , ▁away ▁from ▁her ▁home . ▁The ▁police