by , ▁ 2 nd ▁Baron ▁S ys on by , ▁and ▁Lo elia ▁L inds ay , ▁who ▁married ▁and ▁divor ced ▁the ▁second ▁du ke ▁of ▁West min ster . ▁ ▁Lady ▁S ys on by ▁served ▁ 1 9 1 6 – 1 8 ▁in ▁the ▁French ▁Red ▁Cross ▁in ▁France ▁as ▁a ▁C ante en ▁Work er ▁( two ▁med als ). ▁R ia ▁S ys on by ▁died ▁in ▁ 1 9 5 5 , ▁after ▁having ▁end ured ▁" man if old ▁suffer ings " ▁in ▁her ▁later ▁years . ▁She ▁liked ▁to ▁say ▁that ▁her ▁" gre at est ▁triumph " ▁was ▁" a ▁car avan ▁hol iday ▁when ▁for ▁ten ▁days ▁she ▁did ▁the ▁entire ▁cook ing ▁to ▁the ▁un qual ified ▁satisfaction ▁of ▁him ▁who ▁a te ▁it " ▁( mean ing ▁her ▁husband ▁Fritz ). ▁ ▁Work ▁ ▁Lady ▁S ys on by ' s ▁Cook ▁Book ▁— ▁which ▁was ▁illustrated ▁by ▁Oliver ▁Mess el ▁— ▁includes ▁reci pes ▁for ▁S oup , ▁Fish , ▁L un che on ▁D ishes , ▁Me at , ▁P oul try ▁and ▁Game , ▁Veg et ables , ▁Sal ads , ▁P ud d ings , ▁Sav ou ries , ▁C akes , ▁J ams ▁and ▁J el lies , ▁Sau ces , ▁Sand wich es ▁and ▁M ixed ▁Dr inks . ▁She ▁was ▁address ing ▁an ▁upper - middle - class ▁audience , ▁not ing ▁for ▁example ▁that ▁" all ▁self - res pect ing