▁claimed ▁that ▁the ▁goal ▁of ▁the ▁" g ay ▁ag enda " ▁is ▁" Normal ization ▁through ▁des ens it ization , ▁Und erm ining ▁parent al ▁moral ▁authority , ▁and ▁equ ating ▁hom osex ual ity ▁to ▁heter osex ual ity ." ▁ ▁James ▁Dob son ▁states ▁in ▁the ▁forward ▁of ▁the ▁conference ▁guide : ▁▁ ▁There ▁is ▁no ▁evidence ▁that ▁hom osex uals ▁as ▁a ▁class ▁are ▁disc rimin ated ▁against ▁in ▁the ▁present ▁society . ▁ ▁They ▁are ▁not ▁like ▁African - Amer icans , ▁His pan ics , ▁or ▁other ▁histor ically ▁dis adv ant aged ▁groups , ▁for ▁their ▁identity ▁is ▁based ▁on ▁change able ▁behavior ▁... ▁ ▁Love ▁W on ▁Out ▁stated ▁that ▁" mar riage ▁will ▁continue ▁to ▁be ▁' re defined '" ▁and ▁that ▁Same - S ex ▁Mar riage ▁may ▁mean ▁for ▁our ▁society : ▁" possible ▁thre ats ▁to ▁freedom ▁of ▁speech ▁and ▁religious ▁liberty ." ▁The ▁conference ▁made ▁a ▁point ▁to ▁" effect ively ▁argue ▁for ▁the ▁benefits ▁of ▁traditional ▁marriage ▁to ▁their ▁friends , ▁co - work ers ▁and ▁legisl ators ," ▁and ▁says ▁that ▁gay ▁marriage ▁is ▁not ▁in ▁the ▁best ▁interest ▁of ▁families ▁and ▁children . ▁The ▁organization ▁stated ▁that ▁same - sex ▁marriage ▁places ▁adult ▁des ires ▁above ▁the ▁best ▁interest ▁of ▁our ▁children , ▁" same - sex ▁marriage ▁intention ally ▁creates ▁mother less ▁or ▁father less ▁families ." ▁ ▁Con ferences ▁Love ▁W on ▁Out ▁held ▁con ferences ▁multiple ▁times ▁a ▁year ▁throughout ▁the ▁United ▁States