▁the ▁person ▁is ▁used ▁to ▁thinking ▁of ▁as ▁important . ▁ ▁What ▁comes ▁out ▁sp ont ane ously ▁is ▁always ▁something ▁that ▁is ▁important ▁to ▁the ▁person ▁... ▁O ften ▁intermediate ▁steps ▁are ▁trivial . ▁But ▁what ▁they ▁lead ▁to ▁is ▁important . ▁The ▁material ▁in ▁ps y cho analysis ▁( in ▁the ▁mind , ▁in ▁the ▁un cons cious ) ▁is ▁organ ised ▁associ atively . ▁ ▁Ps y cho analysis ▁sees ▁people ▁as ▁interpre ting ▁the ▁present ▁in ▁terms ▁of ▁the ▁past . ▁The ▁experienced ▁relationships ▁with ▁parents , ▁sib lings ▁and ▁other ▁cru cial ▁others ▁will ▁supply ▁patterns ▁according ▁to ▁which ▁later ▁significant ▁relationships ▁are ▁experienced . ▁ ▁O pp osing ▁mot ives ▁don ’ t ▁cancel ▁each ▁other ▁out . ▁If ▁you ▁intens ely ▁love ▁as ▁well ▁as ▁intens ely ▁hate ▁your ▁father , ▁the ▁end ▁result ▁is ▁never ▁neutral ity , ▁or ▁a ▁weak ▁love , ▁or ▁weak ▁hat red . ▁Love ▁and ▁hate ▁co exist ▁side ▁by ▁side . ▁Your ▁behaviour ▁will ▁express ▁both ▁feelings ▁– ▁perhaps ▁partly ▁at ▁different ▁times , ▁perhaps ▁simultaneously . ▁ ▁When ▁it ▁comes ▁to ▁the ▁cr unch ▁the ▁emot ional ▁reality ▁of ▁adult s ▁is ▁very ▁much ▁like ▁that ▁of ▁children . ▁Ps y cho analysis ▁sees ▁the ▁child ▁in ▁the ▁man ▁( See ▁Development al ▁psych ology ). ▁ ▁From ▁An ▁Ab andon ed ▁Work ▁is ▁a ▁work ▁of ▁fiction ▁that ▁c ites ▁no ▁ps y cho anal yt ical ▁works ▁in ▁particular ▁but ▁g lean ed ▁insp iration ▁from