ament ▁to ▁b ride ) ▁by ▁Gro om ' s ▁relatives ▁( norm ally ▁sister ▁of ▁gro om ) ▁followed ▁by ▁fe ast . ▁Dow ry ▁system ▁is ▁not ▁in ▁this ▁community ▁and ▁rather ▁a ▁tradition ▁of ▁giving ▁ON AP PU D AVA ▁( <0xE0> <0xB4> <0x93> ണ പ ് പ ു ട വ ) ▁– ▁giving ▁clothes ▁– ▁by ▁gro om ▁to ▁the ▁relatives ▁( of ▁both ▁b ride ▁& ▁gro om ) ▁is ▁still ▁followed ▁during ▁marriage ▁as ▁part ▁of ▁taking ▁bless ings ▁from ▁el ders . ▁ ▁Mar riage ▁is ▁normally ▁called ▁" PA AN IG RA H AN AM " ▁( ▁ പ ാ ണ <0xE0> <0xB5> <0x80> <0xE0> <0xB4> <0x97> ് ര <0xE0> <0xB4> <0xB9> ണ ം ▁) ▁and ▁it ▁is ▁a ▁simple ▁function ▁now ad ays . ▁Today ' s ▁mar ri ages ▁are ▁for ▁one ▁day ▁and ▁some ▁major ▁custom s ▁still ▁followed ▁are ▁" N ad has war am " ▁– ▁treated ▁as ▁sacred ▁music ▁will ▁be ▁accompanied , ▁TH AL AP PO LI ▁– ▁receiving ▁function ▁at ▁b ride ' s ▁residence ( mar riage ▁hall ) by ▁girls ▁with ▁a ▁t ray ▁of ▁flowers ▁and ▁oil ▁lamp , ▁K A AL U ▁K A Z H UK AL ▁– ▁B ride ' s ▁younger ▁brother ▁will ▁clean ▁the ▁gro om ' s ▁feet ▁while ▁receiving ▁him ▁to ▁the ▁mand ap am , ▁TH AL IK ET T U ▁( sole mn ▁V ow ) ▁– ▁T ying ▁the ▁th ali ▁chain ▁in ▁the