▁in ▁N J SP )) ▁God ▁put ▁the ▁honor ▁of ▁the ▁father ▁before ▁that ▁of ▁the ▁mother . ▁God ▁knows ▁that ▁a ▁son ▁fear s ▁his ▁father ▁more ▁than ▁his ▁mother , ▁because ▁the ▁father ▁teach es ▁him ▁Tor ah . ▁Therefore , ▁( in ▁) ▁God ▁put ▁the ▁fear ▁of ▁the ▁mother ▁before ▁that ▁of ▁the ▁father . ▁ ▁Our ▁R abb is ▁taught ▁in ▁a ▁Bar ait a ▁what ▁it ▁means ▁to ▁" hon or " ▁and ▁" re vere " ▁one ' s ▁parents ▁within ▁the ▁meaning ▁of ▁ ▁( 2 0 : 1 2 ▁in ▁N J SP ) ▁( hon or ), ▁ ▁( re vere ), ▁and ▁ ▁( 5 : 1 6 ▁in ▁the ▁N J PS ) ▁( hon or ). ▁To ▁" re vere " ▁means ▁that ▁the ▁child ▁must ▁neither ▁stand ▁nor ▁sit ▁in ▁the ▁parent ' s ▁place , ▁nor ▁contradict ▁the ▁parent ' s ▁words , ▁nor ▁eng age ▁in ▁a ▁dispute ▁to ▁which ▁the ▁parent ▁is ▁a ▁party . ▁To ▁" hon or " ▁means ▁that ▁the ▁child ▁must ▁give ▁the ▁parent ▁food ▁and ▁drink ▁and ▁clothes , ▁and ▁take ▁the ▁parent ▁in ▁and ▁out . ▁ ▁Not ing ▁that ▁ ▁( 2 0 : 1 2 ▁in ▁N J SP ) ▁commands , ▁" H on or ▁your ▁father ▁and ▁your ▁mother ," ▁and ▁ ▁direct s , ▁" H on or ▁the ▁Lord ▁with ▁your ▁subst ance ," ▁the ▁R abb is ▁taught ▁in ▁a ▁Bar ait a