▁T ung - man ▁( born ▁ 1 9 8 5 ), ▁or ▁X ie ▁D ong min , ▁Hong ▁Kong ▁singer ▁and ▁actor <0x0A> </s> ▁" L ear ning ▁How ▁to ▁B end " ▁is ▁a ▁song ▁co - written ▁and ▁recorded ▁by ▁American ▁country ▁music ▁singer ▁Gary ▁All an . ▁ ▁It ▁was ▁released ▁in ▁March ▁ 2 0 0 8 ▁as ▁the ▁second ▁single ▁from ▁his ▁ 2 0 0 7 ▁album ▁Living ▁Hard . ▁The ▁song ▁pe aked ▁at ▁number ▁ 1 3 ▁on ▁the ▁U . S . ▁Billboard ▁Hot ▁Country ▁Songs ▁chart . ▁ ▁All an ▁wrote ▁the ▁song ▁with ▁James ▁Le Bl anc ▁and ▁Matt ▁Warren . ▁ ▁Crit ical ▁reception ▁Thom ▁J ure k ▁of ▁All music ▁thought ▁that ▁the ▁song ▁had ▁better ▁production ▁than ▁the ▁others ▁on ▁the ▁album , ▁saying , ▁" With ▁the ▁echo ▁effects ▁on ▁the ▁vocal ▁and ▁the ▁big ▁strings ▁at ▁the ▁same ▁volume ▁as ▁those ▁ring ing , ▁j ang ling ▁gu it ars , ▁[ the ▁mus icians ] ▁can ' t ▁miss ." ▁ ▁Jonathan ▁Ke efe ▁of ▁Sl ant ▁Magazine ▁also ▁made ▁note ▁of ▁All an ' s ▁" effect ive ▁fal set to ." ▁ ▁Lee ann ▁Ward ▁of ▁Country Uni verse . net ▁gave ▁it ▁an ▁A ▁rating , ▁cit ing ▁All an ' s ▁" raw ▁and ▁powerful ▁delivery " ▁and ▁his ▁use ▁of ▁fal set to ▁in ▁the ▁ch orus , ▁as ▁well ▁as ▁the ▁" inter est ing ▁production ." ▁