in ' s ▁death ▁in ▁ 2 0 0 5 , ▁K atherine ▁V iner ▁interview ed ▁art ▁critic , ▁writer , ▁and ▁painter , ▁John ▁Ber ger . ▁This ▁piece ▁for ▁The ▁Guardian ▁was ▁titled ▁"' She ▁Never ▁H ated ▁Men ' ": ▁ ▁" John ▁Ber ger ▁once ▁called ▁D work in ▁' the ▁most ▁mis re present ed ▁writer ▁in ▁the ▁western ▁world '. ▁She ▁has ▁always ▁been ▁seen ▁as ▁the ▁woman ▁who ▁said ▁that ▁all ▁men ▁are ▁rap ists , ▁and ▁that ▁all ▁sex ▁is ▁ra pe . ▁In ▁fact , ▁she ▁said ▁neither ▁of ▁these ▁things . ▁Here ' s ▁what ▁she ▁told ▁me ▁in ▁ 1 9 9 7 : ▁' If ▁you ▁believe ▁that ▁what ▁people ▁call ▁normal ▁sex ▁is ▁an ▁act ▁of ▁domin ance , ▁where ▁a ▁man ▁des ires ▁a ▁woman ▁so ▁much ▁that ▁he ▁will ▁use ▁force ▁against ▁her ▁to ▁express ▁his ▁desire , ▁if ▁you ▁believe ▁that ' s ▁rom antic , ▁that ' s ▁the ▁truth ▁about ▁sexual ▁desire , ▁then ▁if ▁someone ▁den oun ces ▁force ▁in ▁sex ▁it ▁sounds ▁like ▁they ' re ▁den oun cing ▁sex . ▁ ▁Re views ▁▁▁ ▁Rep ly : ▁▁ ▁Following ▁response : ▁▁ ▁Following ▁response : ▁▁ ▁Rev iewer ' s ▁reply : ▁ ▁References ▁▁ ▁Category : 1 9 8 7 ▁non - f iction ▁books ▁Category : American ▁non - f iction ▁books ▁Category : Book s ▁by ▁Andrea ▁D work in ▁Category : English - language ▁books ▁Category :