▁ 2 0 1 4 . ▁ ▁Non - le ague ▁football ▁ ▁After ▁his ▁release ▁from ▁Br ent ford , ▁Nel mes ▁saw ▁out ▁his ▁career ▁with ▁sp ells ▁at ▁Southern ▁League ▁club ▁H illing don ▁Bor ough ▁and ▁Ist hm ian ▁League ▁clubs ▁Hay es ▁( managed ▁by ▁former ▁Br ent ford ▁team mate ▁Bobby ▁Ross ) ▁and ▁South all , ▁before ▁ret iring ▁due ▁to ▁a ▁cart il age ▁injury . ▁ ▁Personal ▁life ▁ ▁Nel mes ▁is ▁married ▁to ▁Norm a ▁and ▁has ▁two ▁sons , ▁Martin ▁and ▁Stuart . ▁Martin ▁played ▁tennis ▁and ▁football ▁to ▁county ▁level ▁and ▁is ▁a ▁L TA - qual ified ▁tennis ▁coach . ▁Stuart ▁has ▁played ▁cr icket ▁for ▁Sus sex ▁County ▁League ▁club ▁Middle ton ▁since ▁ 2 0 0 5 . ▁During ▁the ▁ 1 9 7 0 s , ▁Nel mes ▁lived ▁in ▁Is le worth ▁and ▁worked ▁at ▁the ▁Wat ne ys ▁bre wer y ▁in ▁Mort la ke . ▁He ▁spent ▁time ▁running ▁a ▁business ▁in ▁B ogn or ▁Reg is ▁in ▁the ▁ 1 9 7 0 s ▁and ▁in ▁the ▁ 1 9 9 0 s ▁and ▁ 2 0 0 0 s , ▁he ▁was ▁worked ▁in ▁security ▁at ▁G at wick ▁Airport . ▁As ▁of ▁ 2 0 1 5 , ▁Nel mes ▁was ▁living ▁in ▁Middle ton - on - Se a . ▁ ▁Hon ours ▁ ▁Br ent ford ▁ ▁Football ▁League ▁Four th ▁Division ▁third - place ▁promotion : ▁ 1