▁February ▁ 1 8 6 1 . ▁ ▁During ▁his ▁inaug uration ▁as ▁the ▁Confeder acy ' s ▁President , ▁she ▁performed ▁her ▁signature ▁dance ▁on ▁an ▁American ▁flag . ▁ ▁Her ▁southern ▁sympath ies ▁and ▁profession ▁made ▁her ▁a ▁natural ▁friend ▁of ▁John ▁Wil kes ▁Bo oth . ▁ ▁Family ▁ ▁She ▁was ▁married ▁to ▁Henry ▁P add ock , ▁her ▁manager , ▁in ▁ 1 8 6 8 , ▁and ▁they ▁had ▁two ▁children , ▁F anch on ▁and ▁Harry ▁M . ▁P add ock . ▁They ▁divor ced ▁twenty ▁years ▁later ▁and ▁she ▁was ▁wed ▁to ▁Charles ▁Abb ott ▁( M ace ), ▁and ▁retired ▁from ▁the ▁stage ▁to ▁live ▁in ▁New ▁York . ▁She ▁was ▁( vari ously ) ▁the ▁mother ▁or ▁a unt ▁of ▁Julian ▁Bug her ▁Mitchell ▁( b . ▁ 7 ▁Nov . ▁ 1 8 5 1 ), ▁a ▁musical ▁comedy ▁director ▁associated ▁with ▁We ber ▁& ▁Field s ▁and ▁Flor enz ▁Z ieg feld . ▁ ▁Mitchell ' s ▁mother ▁was ▁born ▁Hann ah ▁D od son ▁in ▁ 1 8 0 5 ▁in ▁Kn ares borough , ▁York shire . ▁She ▁married ▁John ▁L om ax , ▁a ▁native ▁of ▁Bol ton , ▁and ▁em igr ated ▁to ▁the ▁USA ▁in ▁ 1 8 3 0 . ▁In ▁ 1 8 3 2 , ▁they ▁were ▁prepar ing ▁to ▁return ▁to ▁England ▁to ▁escape ▁an ▁ep ide mic ▁of ▁ch ol era , ▁but ▁L om ax ▁died ▁before ▁they ▁sa iled .