▁Gold man ▁claimed ▁that ▁she ▁was ▁convinced ▁otherwise ▁due ▁to ▁his ▁domestic ▁intent ions ▁for ▁her . ▁ ▁It ▁was ▁exactly ▁this ▁point ▁of ▁cont ention ▁that ▁would ▁lead ▁to ▁her ▁dis ill usion ment ▁from ▁not ▁only ▁Most , ▁but ▁M ink in ▁as ▁well . ▁M ink in ▁and ▁Most ' s ▁relationship ▁was ▁a ▁popular ▁topic ▁within ▁the ▁German ▁an arch ist ▁movement ▁in ▁New ▁York , ▁and ▁Gold man ▁took ▁part ▁in ▁the ▁critique . ▁In ▁a ▁letter ▁to ▁her ▁com rade ▁and ▁sought ▁after ▁lo ver , ▁Alex ▁Ber k man , ▁Gold man ▁describes ▁Hel ene ▁and ▁Anna ▁M ink in ▁as ▁“ common ▁ordinary ▁women ” ▁who ▁will ingly ▁limit ▁their ▁lives ▁to ▁domestic ▁serv itude , ▁as ▁she ▁explains ▁in ▁her ▁mem oir s , ▁Living ▁my ▁Life . ▁In ▁addition ▁to ▁her ▁critic isms , ▁Gold man ▁took ▁more ▁direct ▁action ▁against ▁Most ▁when ▁a ▁disag re ement ▁over ▁Ber k man ' s ▁assass ination ▁attempt ▁on ▁Henry ▁Fr ick ▁lead ▁her ▁to ▁horse wh ip ▁him ▁in ▁ 1 8 9 2 ▁at ▁Jewish ▁an arch ist ▁meeting . ▁Gold man ▁and ▁Ber k man ▁were ▁eventually ▁forced ▁out ▁of ▁New ▁York ▁an arch ist ▁circles ▁when ▁they ▁were ▁both ▁deport ed ▁to ▁Russia ▁in ▁ 1 9 1 9 ▁because ▁of ▁their ▁political ▁belief s . ▁ ▁Rel ations hip ▁with ▁Johann ▁Most ▁and ▁family ▁life ▁▁ ▁Johann ▁Most ▁and ▁M ink in ▁met ▁in ▁ 1 8 8 8 ,