Scenario: You have a close sibling who has fallen away from the church. She has been living with her boyfriend for several years and they even have a baby together. Playing house to the T. Your kids are young enough to basically assume they are a "traditional" family. When they come to visit you, do you allow the little family to sleep together or do you insist on separate bedrooms which in theory, protects your kids from scandal but it also insults the family?