evidence: She only ever talks to him if she wants money and he gives her hundreds of dollars each time. I have always suspected her of being mentally disabled in some form. You can imagine my surprise when all this information came out slowly over the course of 2 years. I have been trying to end it with him for awhile now but keep getting sucked back in by how helpless he is without me. He is completely pathetic and unable to even handle a phone call for a doctors appointment by himself. He does live alone and hold down a full time job for over 7 years (menial labor that he struggles with). Over the course of these 2 years I have developed numerous health issues that I need major support with. I was in the hospital twice for life threatening illnesses that almost killed me. After the 2nd time I developed uncontrollable diabetes, asthma, and a tumor in my stomach. I remained on a walker for 6 months after my release from the hospital the last time and still use a cane on occasion.