evidence: If I’m honest, sometimes I don’t know what to say, but I still say things. And it’s usually then that I say or do things that may not be my wisest. Understandable, almost always. But still, not my wisest. [...] So I find myself sitting here as a blogger today, trying to put words to something that I cannot. [...] But my strong sense is that many of those people don’t know what to say either.