evidence: ***Warning, this discussion on expectations vs boundaries may not resonate with you. It may even trigger a defensive response, but everything written is coming from a place of love & grace. Please take a breath and consider releasing it or learning from it. XOXO Shannon*** "Expectation is the root of all heartache." [...] Now, as you’re all hopped up on what you believe people MUST do, you’re more than likely going to be met with the proverbial case of reality versus disappointment. You see, having expectations of others is a great source of frustration, disillusionment, resentment, and sadness because you simply CANNOT (and should not) control others. Even the great William Shakespeare realized it (see quote above).