evidence: [00:20:10] But this idea that we are going to shame or force through power or political violence or whatever and get on the same side, I can't see our way through this anymore. And I don't want to do it. I don't w ant to do this "They're monsters. They're terrible. The Republican Party wants to harm America. This is the most important election of our lifetime." How far does this need to go before we realize it's not working? I guess, led by the Holy Spirit, I picked up Amanda Ripley's High Conflict, a book so many of you had recommended to me, and I read it on the flight here because I had 13 hours, so plenty of time. And it's an excellent book. It's an excellent, excellent book. I read it. And I had Joe Biden in my mind as I read all these portions about you can't shame someone, you can't humiliate someone, you can't exclude someone into agreeing with you. It makes people double down as I was watching Joe Biden do this in real time.