Kan1 989, pinakasalan ni Vera si Arthur Becker sa nterfaith Baptist asin Hudyong seremonya  They resided in Manhattan with their two adopted daughters, Cecilia (born 1990) and Josephine (born 1993). Becker was the CEO of the information technology services company NaviSite until August 2010. In July 2012, Vera Wang Co. announced that the couple had separated. The separation was amicable.