article_snippet: DON’T pay for the first three dates: .
article_snippet: Lady Lara says: ‘On the first three dates, the chap should pay, just because the chap’s good manners - Lady Lara's inviting you and you are going out with Lady Lara.
article_snippet: You can offer to buy a drink at the bar or something, but if you go for dinner then Lady Lara should be the one to pay.