article_snippet: If you're the sort of gentleman who holds the door open for a lady – or the sort of woman who expects him to – then be warned.
article_snippet: It is typified by paternal and protective behaviour, from encouraging smiles to holding doors open.
article_snippet: Writing in the journal Sex Roles, the researchers said that while such behaviour may be well-intentioned, this doesn't mean it isn't harmful.
article_snippet: But critics have argued that there is nothing wrong with men trying to protect women as women are usually the physically stronger sex.
article_snippet: Jill Kirby, a writer on social policy, said: 'There are times when it is very important for women to be protected.
article_snippet: Jill Kirby, a writer on social policy should accept this and not seek to stamp out what is likely a good instinct on the whole.'