article_snippet: Yet incredibly this Melbourne-based couple, both aged 30, have never consummated they marriage - and Erica admits that Erica has no intention of ever doing so.
article_snippet: Erica has known since the tender age of 15 that Erica was asexual - after realizing that Erica had never felt sexually attracted to anyone.
article_snippet: And despite trying to force Erica to feel some kind of sexual desire towards a few men in Erica late teens, Erica admits that Erica failed to ever feel the kind of connection that so many of Erica peers seemed to experience .
article_snippet: At this point, Erica had almost given up on ever finding love, as, perhaps unsurprisingly, most men Erica met ran a mile when Erica told most men she met about Erica total aversion to sex. '
article_snippet: , I just didn't know why,' Erica recalls. '
article_snippet: Erica admits that Erica felt as though Erica had finally met a man who did love Erica just the way Erica was.
article_snippet: I loved Erica from the moment I met Erica and back then naively thought I would one day convince Erica to fancy me,' the IT manager explains. '
article_snippet: But over time while we both love has grown, Erica's aversion to sex has not once waivered and it has not been easy for me to deal with. '
article_snippet: Erica is the one woman I dream of having sex with, yet
article_snippet: And there was a period when I did question whether if I asked Erica to marry me it could ever work. '
article_snippet: But every time I thought about ending it, I knew I could not live without Erica in my life. '
article_snippet: If I didn't love Erica as much as I do it would never have lasted, but we both are still hopelessly in love in spite of we both lack of intimacy. '
article_snippet: On we both wedding night I longed to make love to Erica, but I couldn't and that did cause we both both pain. '
article_snippet: But over time we both have made this situation work as I would rather share my life with Erica with no sex than not at all.'
article_snippet: But over time it is getting easier and it does take the pressure off Erica. '
article_snippet: Of course I would rather be having sex with Erica, but if I can't then this seems like the best solution as it is the only thing missing in my life and marriage.'
highlights_snippet: Erica Holloway, 30, has known that Erica Holloway was asexual since the age of 15 .
  