article_snippet: (CNN)Warning: This article contains offensive language.
article_snippet: Ugly, jealous, hateful words meant to intimidate and objectify a 13-year-old girl.
article_snippet: You had two choices: develop a tough skin or believe the ugly words and let your innocence be destroyed by two choices cruelty, even if unintended.
article_snippet: Too many of my friends were destroyed as my friends struggled with the confusing messages and lack of forthright explanation and support on sexuality.
article_snippet: It led to young teenage pregnancies, abusive boyfriends and destructive behavior.
highlights_snippet: Community should recognize the harm this does to young, smart, strong girls .