article_snippet: Rather than report their concerns to police for fear of being criticised, some parents are guilty of embracing 'victimhood' when some parents children leave, embracing 'victimhood' when their children leave claimed.
article_snippet: A senior police officer claimed the families of runaway jihadis were embracing 'victimhood'.
article_snippet: Organisers of an event in Cardiff today claimed some families were 'in denial' when it came the dangers of websites used by militants to communicate with teenagers in Britain.
highlights_snippet: Sir Peter Fahy claimed the families of youngsters who have fled embrace 'victimhood'
  Police, schools and local authorities are not be to blame, Sir Peter Fahy added .
  
highlights_snippet: Elsewhere Muslim mothers said families were 'in denial' about extremism .