article_snippet: I wish I wanted to have sex with her husband,' Erica, a graphic designer, explains. '
article_snippet: and I know I never will as, while I love her husband, the very idea of making love to her husband of sex repulses me. '
article_snippet: Yet Andrew admits it was not easy to come to terms with sharing Andrew life with a woman who had no desire to share Andrew bed and Andrew
article_snippet: even had second thoughts about asking Andrew to be Andrew wife. '
article_snippet: And to date Andrew has slept with ten other women.
article_snippet: Just because I don't want sex, I understand Andrew does, so we sought help from a sex counselor who came up with the suggestion Andrew takes lovers and it seemed the perfect solution for we,' Erica says. '
article_snippet: Jealousy is never a factor as I'm just relieved Andrew is having sex; I feel guilty it can't be with Jealousy. '
article_snippet: It's not that often, but when Andrew feels the desire, Andrew either calls an escort or maybe a woman who Andrew has met on the Internet and goes to see them. '
article_snippet: It is an unconventional marital set up that Andrew admits has been harder for Andrew to get used to than Erica. '
article_snippet: When I got married I never once thought I would be cheating on my wife and I still struggle with it as it just seems like a betrayal of our vows,' Andrew explains. '
article_snippet: Erica explained: 'I think that would be the dream situation, as that way Andrew doesn't even need to leave our home to have sex. '
article_snippet: our dream scenario is to find someone we both really enjoy the company of who would live in our spare room and be an integral part of our family who can also enjoy an intimate relationship with Andrew.'
highlights_snippet: IT consultant Andrew has slept with ten other women, including a number of professional escorts, since Andrew married Erica .