article_snippet: Pauline can be a complete Jekyll and Hyde - one minute
article_snippet: Pauline is only a tiny little thing
article_snippet: and Pauline goes through this thing
article_snippet: During one outburst, Pauline is seen shouting at Pauline mother: 'It's not f***ing working, don't f***ing talk to me' over a toy and when Pauline mild-mannered twin sister, Jorja, tells Pauline to 'stop being silly' Pauline retorts: 'Shut up you
article_snippet: Pauline is at the end of Pauline tether as after Spencer was diagnosed, Sapphire then started acting violently. 
article_snippet: but Pauline now faces another violent battleground with Sapphire.
article_snippet: Pauline often has to retreat Pauline to bedroom in fear of Pauline children's behaviour and is left in tears over what Pauline can do to bring harmony to their home. '
article_snippet: Caught in the firing line is Pauline other daughter, Jorja, who often retreats to sit on Pauline own when Pauline sister's tantrums begin and is often at the receiving end of Pauline verbal abuse herself.
article_snippet: Trying to play a simple games of cards with her sister can result in Pauline being sworn and shouted at.
article_snippet: The single mother-of-three often retreats to Pauline room to hide from Pauline aggressive children .
article_snippet: Islay Downey, a parenting practitioner who helped Pauline when Pauline struggled with Spencer, returns to help the family again now Sapphire is causing problems.
article_snippet: Pauline observed that Jorja was often the victim as Pauline withdraws to find a corner to sit on Pauline own while Pauline mother and sister fight.
article_snippet: Pauline needs to focus more on Jorja, that retreating isn't good for Pauline.'
article_snippet: Pauline said: 'From experience, Pauline helps to taken The family away from a familiar environment where The family have to break familiar patterns of behaviour.'
article_snippet: A weekend away with her twin girls proves a revelation as Pauline finally starts being the boss .
article_snippet: The activities all work towards Pauline reestablishing control instead of letting Sapphire take charge.
article_snippet: The mother is amazed by the transformation in The mother children's behaviour when The mother is the boss.
article_snippet: Islay says Islay's hopeful Pauline 'will now go from strength to strength' and take what Islay had learnt back into the home environment.