article_snippet: and we're supposed to tamp down that moodiness," said Julie Holland, author of "Moody Bitches" and a psychiatrist who has practiced in New York for 20 years.
article_snippet: Yazel, a mom of a 4-year-old, wondered if people are afraid of being unhappy.
article_snippet: I do think that people are afraid to be sad and people're afraid to be scared," Holland said.
article_snippet: and then you compare it to your life," said Hostin, a mom of two.
article_snippet: Postpartum depression: One mom's mission becomes a movement .
article_snippet: What we're also seeing, Holland said, is a growing belief by women in the workplace that women need the meds to control women emotions at the office.
article_snippet: Thinking about trying to control our emotionality for the comfort of others reminded me of a college relationship, which I shared with Hostin, Yazel and Holland.
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