article_snippet: It started in the 19th century with the debutante balls, where women would be escorted and presented to society
article_snippet: – women had to be cherished.
article_snippet: DON’T be sexy, DO be elegant: .
article_snippet: Lady Lara says: ‘If you go on a date, the most important thing looks wise is being elegant over sexy.
article_snippet: So it isn't about showing cleavage, leg and everything - so less is more.
article_snippet: It's about being elegant with your clothing - dress just a little bit better than you would normally.
article_snippet: Also, accessorise for the season and have a good handbag, good scarf and use of colour.