article_snippet.sent: The former Premier League defender, 35 said The former Premier League defender, 35 had 'moved out of the marital home' in Yorkshire Yorkshire that The former Premier League defender, 35 shared with The former Premier League defender, 35 wife of 14 years, Gemma.
article_snippet.sent: The pair are pictured together in 2013 .
article_snippet.sent: The sportsman, dubbed 'Britain's brainiest footballer' after he appeared on Countdown in 2002, told TalkSport Radio on a special Monday night show: 'At this point, wife Gemma and I have separated. '
article_snippet.sent: I have moved out of the marital home because I have to focus on my well-being and equally as much wife Gemma has to do the same. '
article_snippet.sent: wife Gemma has to deal with wife Gemma experiences and the effect that has had on wife Gemma.'
article_snippet.sent: Asked about how Mr Carlisle wife Gemma has taken it, Mr Carlisle added: 'Every day has been incredibly tough and different. '
article_snippet.sent: When you have been with someone for 14 years but masking things and thoughts from wife Gemma, it was because I was a people-pleaser. '
article_snippet.sent: I've desperately wanted to say what I know will make wife Gemma happy and do the things that I think wife Gemma wants me to do - instead of being myself.'
highlights_snippet.sent: Father-of-three says both hand Father-of-three wife have to focus on their 'well-being'
  