article_snippet.sent: I didn't go to college for four years to be a mom," 21-year old Candace Monacelli told me.
article_snippet.sent: As a child of divorce I never wanted to get married, either -- until I met my husband at 38.
article_snippet.sent: But, when I was in my twenties, waiting to marry the right man and forgoing children put me decidedly and uncomfortably in the minority.
article_snippet.sent: Perhaps it is selfish to establish a career, travel and have a child on your own.
article_snippet.sent: "The notion that marriage is something that you're pressured into seems horrible to me.
article_snippet.sent: We didn't plan to have children, what was the point?