Then your father came , and I was so happy that I found it easy to be good . But by-and-by , when I had four little daughters round me and we were poor , then the old trouble began again , for I am not patient by nature , and it tried me very much to see my children wanting anything . '' `` Poor Mother ! What helped you then ? '' `` Your father , Jo . He never loses patience , never doubts or complains , but always hopes , and works and waits so cheerfully that one is ashamed to do otherwise before him . He helped and comforted me , and showed me that I must try to practice all the virtues I would have my little girls possess , for I was their example . It was easier to try for your sakes than for my own . A startled or surprised look from one of you when I spoke sharply rebuked me more than any words could have done , and the love , respect , and confidence of my children was the sweetest reward I could receive for my efforts to be the woman I would have them copy . '' `` Oh , Mother , if I 'm ever half as good as you , I shall be satisfied , '' cried Jo , much touched . `` I hope you will be a great deal better , dear , but you must keep watch over your ` bosom enemy ' , as father calls it , or it may sadden , if not spoil your life . You have had a warning . Remember it , and try with heart and soul to master this quick temper , before it brings you greater sorrow and regret than you have known today . '' `` I will try , Mother , I truly will . But you must help me , remind me , and keep me from flying out . I used to see Father sometimes put his finger on his lips , and look at you with a very kind but sober face , and you always folded your lips tight and went away . Was he reminding you then ? '' asked Jo softly . `` Yes . I asked him to help me so , and he never forgot it , but saved me from many a sharp word by that little gesture and kind look . ''
Jo saw that her mother 's eyes filled and her lips trembled as she XXXXX , and fearing that she had said too much , she whispered anxiously , `` Was it wrong to watch you and to speak of it ?
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