The video premiered on May 2 , 2004 at the end of its '' Making the Video '' episode on MTV and entered general rotation on MTV the following day . It debuted on the network 's '' Total Request Live '' on May 10 and on Canada 's MuchMusic in the week ending May 16 . It reached number three on the '' TRL '' top ten video countdown on May 21 , its seventh day on the countdown ; and was retired from the show after spending thirteen days on the countdown . Temporarily , the " Talk About Our Love " video was the most-played clip on BET , reaching number two on the network 's video countdown '' 106 & Park '' . '' PopMatters '' ranked the video among the best music videos of 2004 . At the 2004 MTV Video Music Awards , Norwood and West were nominated in the category of Best R&B Video for " Talk About Our Love "
2004 MTV Video Music Awards
2004 MTV Video Music Awards
Talk About Our Love