Julia 's spiritual adviser was Habib Selon ( real name : Salim Al Athas , 1969-2015 ) , who was head of the Jakarta chapter of FPI . When deadly floods hit Jakarta in mid-January 2013 , Julia accompanied Selon on a visit to the inundated neighborhood of Kampung Bukit Duri to hand out food and water aid . Some Muslims later criticized Selon because Julia had been wearing a figure-hugging T-shirt , whereas Selon and the FPI had in 2012 successfully campaigned to have Lady Gaga banned from performing in Jakarta because of her " indecent " clothes . Julia had in 2012 urged Lady Gaga to ignore the ban , tweeting : " Dear mother @ladygaga please come to JKT ! I dont care if they will hurt ME with bamboo or weapons ! My blood is ur blood . . please come i beg u After Selon died of a heart attack in 2015 , Jupe said he was like an older brother to her , and often gave her advice . She said they had planned to perform an umroh ( minor haj pilgrimage ) together in February 2016 . She had also asked him to act as her guardian in the event she were to remarry
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