The video is iconic within popular culture , being the first glimpse of Jackson 's seductive and adult image , in contrast to the bulky uniforms and military ensemble she was previously known for . The transition first began with prior video " Love Will Never Do ( Without You ) , " portraying Jackson 's newly-svelte figure and midriff-baring style , becoming her trademark image and iconic within entertainment . " That 's the Way Love Goes " was nominated for Best Dance Video , Best Choreography , and Best Female Video at the MTV Video Music Awards . The video is featured on the '' Janet '' and '' Design of a Decade '' video compilations , special edition of '' All for You '' , and '' From Janet to Damita Jo : The Videos '' . Behind the scenes footage of its filming was also released . An alternate " One Take Version " focusing solely on Jackson appears exclusively on the '' Janet '' video compilation
MTV Video Music Awards
1993 MTV Video Music Awards
That's the Way Love Goes (Janet Jackson song)