'' There My Dear '' was released by Warner Music NZ , debuting at number 7 on New Zealand 's album charts ( Dimmer 's first and only top-ten placing , and the start of a seven-week run ) and receiving two nominations at the 2007 New Zealand Music Awards , both in technical categories . Aspects of the album , most obviously its title and thematic origins in a relationship break-up , were inspired by Marvin Gaye 's '' Here My Dear '' . Videos were made for singles " Do n't Even See Me " and " You 're Only Leaving Hurt " , the latter directed by Gary Sullivan ( who appeared on every Dimmer album except this one ) and granted $ 5,000 from NZ On Air . New Zealand internet users are geoblocked by rights holders WMG from watching the music video for " You 're Only Leaving Hurt " on Youtube
2007 New Zealand Music Awards
2007 New Zealand Music Awards
Dimmer (band)