The video , filmed in April 1998 and used 90-degree tilts to depict the drama and the playfulness between the two . It was nominated for two 1998 MTV Video Music Awards , for Best R&B Video and Video of the Year , but lost to both Wyclef Jean 's " Gone Till November " and Madonna 's " Ray of Light " respectively
1998 MTV Video Music Awards
1998 MTV Video Music Awards
The Boy Is Mine (song)