One of the most important things you can do in this life is to let injured people know they are not alone.  I took care of hundreds of injured and people who died from clots, bleeds, grade 4 gliomas, and sudden onset grade four tumors with Mets to the brain over the last 3.5 years. 

My take home from the interaction was this: Every game in life is winnable between people if you change your mind about what the prize should be and your perspective about the players at the table.  Calley has a lot of work to do to get anyone’s trust back.