You always hear guys post flex stories of how many women they bedded in their lives and all their wins 

The truth is to be a winner you’re going to take some heavy losses in life too.. they will change you into a stronger man if you let it 

I’ll tell you a story how I got played by a girl from the poor side of town (don’t date poor people) 

Anyway, today I was at Von Maur buying some items and it reminded me of Christmas from like 11 years ago 

I bought this girl I was dating an entire outfit limited edition boots, gloves, hat, shirt, leggings 

It was expensive and looked great 

She claimed she needed to stay at her grandmothers house during this time period 

This will sound crazy but the day before this begun I walked into the post office when she was in my car.. this voice in my head goes if she is loyal she will stay close 

When I got back into the car she goes I.. I needed to stay at my grandmothers she needs me 

In reality her boyfriend from high-school had flew into town.. she wore the expensive outfit I bought her to meet him and have sex with him 😂😅🤣

Successful guys get played too, at the time I didn’t know she did this and didn’t find out till years later 

These are lessons as a young man no one’s gonna teach you that buying gifts for these women is a bad move and you should be investing in yourself at all times 

You take those hard losses and they teach you for the future if you listen  

I am always honest with you guys as maybe it’ll change some of your guys lives for the better