Oomf decides to be courageous and come out, and then Christians rush in to maintain doctrinal-practical uniformity instead of just, like, sitting there with him as a fellow traveler trying to figure out the life he's got. Christianity is, as Ratzinher put it, the religion of the Logos, and so we ought to be the most confident in the light of intelligence, which is the light of Christ, to guide all well, even if we disagree with how this or that person's conscience gets formed. But, as queer Christians trying to figure out the one life they've got regularly experience, their fellow Christians are.often, paradoxically, some of the LEAST confident in that Light that enlightens every man.