But I think the truth is that there are literally, 10s if not 100s of thousands, of similar stories like this out there happening to white guys.

You'll never hear about them though because:

(1) We've been indoctrinated to believe our concerns are never valid

(2) We are afraid of the blowback that comes with trying to stand up for yourself as a White guy in America 

(i.e. you immediately get labeled racist)