Whalahi forget say I dey hammer on “Positive Patriarchy “ most of our men if not all need to fix up abeg. 

We need to deprogram themselves of this toxic masculinity stuff. 

Be human abeg. Just be human ! 

If some women open their mouth and tell you what they go through in marriage eh , genuinely ( these are not people who spread their dirty linens on the streets of twitter )  , if they open their mouth to talk , you will be shocked to learn that we still  have men who behave like hitler to the mother of their own children , their own wives ! 

The one wey make me really hala person wey  I know  very well , was that his wife gave birth to twins , one vaginally with third degree tear and the other C-Section because she couldn’t bear the pain from the vaginal birth , still this man was expecting her cook and make eba and was making it a huge issue. Brother just order food na. 

Me i do not support this kind thing abeg.