Some family members can't contribute to weddings, graduations, funerals or any other family gatherings with money but they can do so with their hands. Do not undermine the uncle who doesn't give you money but makes sure the cow is slaughtered correctly. The auntie who cleans the pots, that brother who mobilizes his squad to pull your car out of the mud when it rains and the sister who takes your child for a short call during the night. 
Love is all they can give. Learn to respect people. 🤗