I really hate domestic violence especially when you have kids watching, since last night have been watching people being separated by neighbors and to just stop because the kids are standing there watching, I always ask myself as parents, do you know how selfish we are to cause trauma to our own blood because our love for each other is over, before we start fighting do we ever care about the effects of our actions to our children, memories of growing up in a violent home never disappear from children even when they are grownups, now we are waking up to police all over again, why can't you just pick your clothes, change your phone and walk away instead of fighting. Please fellow Kenyans if it's not working , walk away, don't ever feel ashamed of starting over again, domestic violence affects your kids more than the two of you.