❤️I have felt your pain in the past ❤️❤️‍🩹
Never break your character for someone else to feel better about themselves or be their scapegoat. 

Thus is why I only make true friends in real life and even that is getting difficult now a days. My best advice is to find and surround yourself with people who share your same values and beliefs in real life, rather than virtual life. 

The internet can expose you to many people with varying values who do not share the same beliefs and it can get very lonely for genuine people who are authentic and want to make real connections. 

They have very little effort in the relationship when they are sitting behind a screen typing words. It’s easy to just slip away because chances are, they don’t have as much invested, and most don’t even use their real names or personas that they have in real life. Thus, there is no one holding them accountable for their actions and behavior. 

Effort is shown through action, not words or texting. If someone promises you something on the internet I would take it with a grain of sand unless they say it face to face.  If someone truly wants you in their life, they see you, share real life experiences and don’t just lead you on, on the internet. I wouldn’t take any promise seriously from someone you haven’t met in real life. People get consumed with the internet and think this is their family and make it their real life unfortunately. Then it just becomes a reflection of them they are portraying to anyone who subscribes. 

Also, there are bots with verified accounts now so there is really no way to tell who you are actually speaking to unless you meet them in real life. A lot of deceptive poor character people who cannot form real connections in real life use the internet to fulfill their own needs and clearly could care less about others. 

My rule is that if someone respects me enough to give me their undivided attention face to face, they are like me and value me and my time. Don’t get hung up on internet promises. I just assume they aren’t serious if they are not willing to put the effort into the relationship, in real life. 
We stat connections on the internet and unless they’re on the other side of the world and both parties are poor, there is no reason not to meet in real life at some point to deepen the relationship. 

Hope that helps some ❤️❤️‍🩹 you can be anyone you want to be on the internet. Someone actually made a song about it. I forget his name. Country singer. Save yourself the pain, and make those connections in real life. They are much more worth it and far more mutually beneficial. Usually there is a reason why people can’t make those connections in real life and it’s not your fault. They usually come to the internet then to avoid fixing themselves. 

It’s their own fault because they don’t put real effort into it but a lot of them demand your loyalty and commitment in return as if your time is not as valuable as theirs. Never take serious promises made by people who are not willing to put the same time and energy you do into your relationships whether it’s friendships or romantic ones. The longer you spend with the wrong people, the less time you have to attract and find the right ones who can keep their promises and don’t see people as disposable commodities. Unfortunately this is the reason the world is going the way it is. Instead sod fixing interpersonal skills now the internet is an escape to avoid themselves and looking in the mirror. Don’t be their mirror and think there is something wrong with you. 

This is just general advice, I’m not sure what your situation is but since you put it on the internet, I assumed maybe it might apply to your situation.