These kind of comments are unhelpful for a number of reasons:
1. A congregation is fully capable & often times the most likely to hurt you. Christians are great at shooting our own wounded. 
2. If we are going to say that a person and the church are not the same then we have a massive ecclesiology issue. Because the Church is the people.
3. While it may be true that Jesus didn’t hurt you, this is the opposite of the response we see Jesus give in the gospels to this type of accusation. 

In John 11, when Martha blames Jesus for the death of her brother, He comforts her. When Mary comes and does the same thing, He weeps with her. There’s no defensive stance. No redirecting blame to someone else. He allows them to bring the pain and the hurt to Him and place it where they feel it’s needed. We should be doing the same. I may not have hurt you personally, but if what & who I represent is what you have been hurt by, then let me weep with you before any attempts of raising the dead.