If each time your husband mentions something you did wrong or tries to correct you your first inclination is to defend yourself and argue, then you are a difficult woman. To never accept to be corrected or to be difficult to correct is a bad trait. All those telling you a woman is always right marriage are grooming nonsense into your head. Being defensive about your mistakes is not a 'woman thing'. It is a childish behavior and a mark of an irresponsible adult. Adults should own up to their mistakes, apologise and seek to correct them.

Some women think when their husband stops correcting them it is victory for them. How wrong they are. You have just lost that man. His body may be in the union but his mind is long gone. If he fears Allāh, then he will force himself to endure the union or if he has the means contemplate another wife. If he doesn't fear Allāh enough, he will likely be having an affair.

Some women come out to say they don't know what they did to lose their husband's attention and interest yet they are difficult to correct and reason with and find submission to a man an uphill climb. Your attitude lost him my dear.

Normalise letting your husband correct you and be willing to take correction. Say sorry when you are wrong, don't seek for dramas and blackmails to turn the table. Don't be a difficult wife. Nobody stays in love with nonsense for too long.

Abu Imrān