Today, I found myself taking my wife to the ED (emergency department). After explaining all my wife's medical issues that currently has, with medications she is taken or allergic, explaining all recent medical surgeries and diagnosis. My wife was in severe pain, nausea, and dysphoria.

The tragedy nurse asked my wife if i was a hyperchondriac. The ED doctor asked my wife why I said she had 18 mental disorders.  

My wife suffers from chronic kidney disease, GI upper/lower issues, and FND. 

All that other stuff sucks but is manageable. What the heck is FND?

Functional neurological disorder (FND) has
many other terms, including:
Conversion disorder, functional movement disorder, Psychogenic seizures or movement disorder, dissociative seizures or motor disorders, Non-epileptic seizures, dissociative neurological symptoms disorder

The ED doctor had no idea what i to explain to him and why she needs a CT with contrast for her head, left/right flank, and lower abdomen. He also did not understand why she needed an EKG, Vitals check, urine, blood work up, and pain medication.

I never talked to the doctor, charge nurse, or her nurse. I asked to see my wife, as her primary caregiver, i was concerned. Of course, I was wrong, and the doctor had two security guards confront me with questions. They said I was rude and a problem. I literally was on YouTube with my earbuds in for hours. Until my wife called and said they set 2 ivs. The first was not secure and pulled out at imagining. The second one was a 22 gauge needle (very small). She received no meds, no iv fluids, and no other services. We left on an AMA. They detained my wife in room in the ED and tried to detain me. Lucky for me, one of the security guards was a county sheriff. After a long conversation, he advised the hospital I did nothing wrong. They could make me leave for being thorough and a patient advocate. 

At this point, what would you have done?