I reiterate the words of a friend who is ex muslim fought and fled for her freedom now resides in the UK .  "There is no such thing as Islamophobia.  A phobia refers to an irrational fear, whereas fear of women, non-believers, homosexuals and others living under Sharia law is both rational and real. The hyjab is not a choice. Women are beaten and lashed for just showing a bit of hair." You are not islamiphobic for questioning the belief system within extremism, which is both dangerous and problematic.