There’s another side to that coin though which is that autistic children are, much of the time, treated as subhuman, often in the name of support. Whether it be ABA or treating them like a burden to their parents or a genetic defect to be rooted out of the human race. While I don’t think that NOT labeling kids neurodivergent is the answer to these problems, on an individual basis, it could be a reason to think twice before labeling a kid as such, especially in more mild cases. Not to mention the fact that such a diagnosis is subjective. Could be better to just say that they are “eccentric” or “socially awkward” or whatever, then seek to support them on more individual terms.