Masculine men, who recognize the value of women who produce a world un achievable by one’s self, are the kind of masculinity we should recognize.  I have six kids, all homeschooled, and my boys are capable beyond their peers means.  That’s not my doing, that is my wife’s doing.  When I revert to the “toxic” instruction that I received, my wife balances out with an appreciation of that “kill or be killed” with all of the wisdom required by a woman rearing strong men, in balance.  

We used to call these women Queen, and I still do.  Own your kingdom dudes.