Further, I bet if those teachers actually asked their young Christian men if Tate is a good guy they would all say he isn't. They would likely clarify that he says some relevant things about men today in a feminist culture.

Young men are not stupid and this Big Eva fear mongering is almost always a denial of reality. I know lots of young Christian men who are aware of Tate, think he says some valid things, but all know that he's not a Christian and not someone to be emulating.