i do kind of wonder if people are aware that they frequently out their deepest insecurities in how they complain about other people online…

i’ve seen a fair bit about myself recently, and the secondhand embarrassment quite literally causes me to avert my eyes. even though it’s directed at me, it’s not about me at all—it’s about their deep insecurities. i feel like i’m seeing a very personal moment that i’m not supposed to see!