If you collect as low as 12k as TF from a man to meet up, whether to punish him or intentionally, you need to reexamine yourself. What if something happened to you, e go be because of 12k? The moral decadence in this country is so bad. As a married man, you are the one threatening a single lady with calling her out for not turning up to meet with you for sex! Are you sure you know what the institution of matrimony stands for? The moral standards are so low. I’m sorry!!