No be this kind advise I wan hear from 54 year old woman even if I wasn’t married. Age and experience will determine how you handle people in your lives. 

What I would like to know are: How did you plan your retirement? What investments did you make before hitting 50 and how are they paying off? How many friends do you have and why? What vitamins for bone health do you think? How are your children doing and what early foundation did you set for them to become successful?