Feb. 2022

Mom asked  “what happened to Butch (my stepdad).  I thought about how to answer this since his death on Jan. 4th, 2022.  I said “he didn’t make it”  We didn’t discuss the details really. At the time there really wasn’t much I could tell her.  I was denied access to them and I had to rely on the words of strangers. 

Now I know too much.  They hastened his death, did things without consent, that he was just a dollar sign AND 
 
He was AN UNVACCINATED!

It’s so hard talking about him.  I can’t help but think was he wondering why I wasn’t at his bedside.  I couldn’t save him and he died alone.  They denied me everything. He didn’t stand a fighting chance.  This wasn’t a peaceful passing. I mention this because people think I should be moving on……never until I get accountability.

My stepdad was cremated it’s what he wanted. We didn’t bury him for months. We waited until mom was able to go.  

She has been through so much. Lost lots of hair.  It was so matted the only thing to do was cut it off.  I could see they never brushed her teeth. There was no “drinking” water it was more like sips. I had to hold the cup. She wasn’t strong enough. I was only getting one word answers she couldn’t really pronounce them clearly.

Words weren’t matching the meaning. She didn’t know the difference between the up or down arrows to move the hospital bed. Couldn’t sit up on her own.  This was really brutal. 

Finally, 3 days after mom came home I had the 1st visit from a Home healthcare nurse to evaluate and put a plan together for mom’s care.  The documentation from the hospital didn’t tell them the truth on how many bedsores and that there was a deep tissue injury.

The plan would include PT, OT, a nurse and an aide. I waited over a week for an aide.  We eventually got speech therapy. 

Still can’t find someone that specializes in PTSD. Of course, it has to be someone that understands and believes what happened.  God, the night terrors.  

She doesn’t want the TV on the sound was too much.  

The supplies for the wounds were limited. They wanted me to change the dressing for the wounds every 48hrs.  There was NOOOOO way that was gonna happen.  It was a mess and needed more attention.  I had to purchase dressing, topicals, etc on my own.  

This must sound so jumbled, but I was in this insane situation…….smdh

The hospital isn’t giving me all the medical records.  What more could they be hiding…….I’m almost afraid to know. @Saorise69 @CHBMPorg @FormerFeds @BeeLeeLiberty @Cheri1273 @Healthwarrior86 @Justice4Earl @BelknapM @bluhawii26