The truth is, beyond appearances, most men desire a wholesome nurturing woman. However, mainstream culture has distorted this, labelling nurturing actions as "mothering" to shame the very qualities men find endearing. Such terminology is nothing more than reductive jargon. I would argue that our nurturing and selfless "mothering" actions are simply expressions of genuine care - yet we are criticised for embodying our nature at its most wholesome. Heaven forbid we embrace our natural feminine inclinations to offer emotional warmth, to listen, to gently caress, and to tend to a man's needs. This vilification of care is not progressive - it is regressive.