There are two types of people in this world. Those that say what they want and need. These are the types that will say “hey, can you help me carry this?” Or “I want to tell you about something, do you have a minute?” 

The other type will give you the opportunity to ask or volunteer. They’ll sigh dramatically and wait for you to ask what’s wrong. They’ll say things like “this is really heavy, not sure I can lift it alone” and then wait for someone to offer.

The first group can’t get along with the second.