I don’t take lectures from women without the capacity to self regulate or any of their friends. Jot that down. Being a mean girl with me doesn’t work because I’m not trying to sit with you at your table. Please exclude me. I wrote the book on mean girls. What you’re subconsciously doing is trying to manipulate me from a place of relative weakness which I’m supposed to acquiesce to because I want to be seen as nice. Except I don’t. I’m not nice. I strive to be kind. Big difference. Being dramatic and hysterical works as well with me when you’re an adult as it does with my kids, which is to say not at all. Go be big mad elsewhere and when you can communicate with me appropriately I’ll listen. Otherwise spiral somewhere else I’m busy baking.