What about you connecting with her first and then helping her to become better?

This actually shows what kinda man you'd be to your wife and children. You need to be very constructive with life. Don't be destructive so you don't get destroyed. 

Also be careful of the seeds you sow into people's lives less you reap the same.

Lastly, consider being a good man of great words. Your clients are actually on this app. The ones that already gave you a job and the ones who are currently willing to give you a job. I believe you'd appreciate destructive criticism from them when and if they give you a job.

Selah