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Title: blames the victim
Review: I think these ideas might work with people you have limited contact with.The scenario about the husband blowing up about the dinner was just terrible and I really couldn't see how this guy really loves his wife. He just expects her to be obedient like some dog.Elgin says if you just respond the right way you can stop the verbal abuse. This just isn't true. Most verbal abusers are just looking to find fault about anything.The problem lies with the abuser and not the victim. The abuser needs to learn how to stop treating people that way.Most victims of abuse spend years twisting and contorting themselves to try to fix what they are doing wrong so the abuse will stop.Notice the in the scenarios the abuse never stopped. Just until next time when the husband felt like blowing up about something again.
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