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Title: Author has no clue!
Review: The author had written about having S/M sex. What rape victim would find the thought of being bound sexually arousing? Doesn't she know childhood sexual assault brings about great struggles with trust? She wants the rape survivor to trust a spouse or partner to "tie them up" for sex, when the survivor can't bring herself to feel intimate compassionate love? I was looking for help to restore a loving relationship, instead I read sections on the unthinkable. The use of the "F" word was disgusting and her terminology for sexual acts were enough to make me want to throw up and forget sex completely. I am fighting to find enjoyment in one of the most beautiful relationships a husband and wife can share. That relationship was destroyed by a rapist and this book with its ugly choice of words and descriptions has only deepened the scarring with its filth.
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