Title: Excellent beginner intro to BDSM
Review: I bought SM101 after a suggestion from an experienced member of the local scene. Wiseman gives newbies an excellent intro to the social rules, ideas and conventions of BDSM. He also gives great ideas for learning the basic physics and mechanics of BDSM.The only thing I don't like is that Wiseman is a somewhat hard ass of a top. I want to be (and have, I'm a switch) a softer top. But this was still the book I needed to read as a newb.After you read SM101, I recommend Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns next. http://www.amazon.com/Screw-Roses-Send-Thorns-Sadomasochism/dp/0964596008/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid;=1359083781&sr;=8-1&keywords;=screw+the+roses+send+me+the+thorns
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