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Title: Disappointing stereotypes
Review: I am new to tantra, but not to meditation or conscious exploration of sexuality. The author makes a lot of blanket assumptions about how "we" women experience "our" sexuality (repressed, pressured, abused, man-pleasing, out of touch with our own pleasure or power, fearful of penetration, truly desiring only of sweet, tender caresses) and about how men's sexuality is (aggressive, insensitive, rough, fast, out of touch with his own emotions, truly desiring only to get it in and off as fast as possible). Perhaps this describes many women's sexual lives, but not mine. It took enormous self control to keep reading and give the ideas a fair trial. The second half was less patronizing. I tried out some of the ideas and had an excellent experience, but I did not find the author's take on tantra to be inspiring or insightful. I will be pursuing tantra, but looking for a more modern book, one which speaks better to the psycho-sexual landscape of women raised in the 80s-90s-00s.
