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Title: Blames the victim
Review: I wish I would have read Lundy's book (Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men) or Evan's book (the Verbally Abusive Man; can he change) first. Those are excellent books. They explain how the angry and controlling man's mind works. This book teaches you how to stay in an abusive relationship and make the "best" out of the situation. These men are sick and need therapy. I've been in a marriage for over 6 years with a verbally abusive man. Understanding their thought process is the key to knowing whether to stay or go. This book in no way addresses their sense of entitlement. It doesn't address why they try to control. I feel like it still blames the victim. It blames the victim for taking the abuse to "heart", but unless you've lived through how vicious the abuse can be...not taking it to "heart" is easier said than done.
