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Title: A great book that does NOT advocate affairs
Review: Don't be misled by the unhappy reviewers here - they have their personal reasons for not liking this book but are missing the big picture. The women in these pages did NOT find it easy to have affairs - rather, they struggled mightily with morals, conscience, and selfhood, and found that it is a life and death struggle with many consequences. Ms. Heyn presents their stories with something sorely missing in our culture - a lack of judgment and a compassionate interest in understanding behavior rather than automatically condemning it because it's uncomfortable. Every one of us has some shame and secrets - wouldn't you rather be understood for your "imperfections" rather than treated harshly? It is a threatening thing, to challenge the codes of marriage and culture. Much easier to hand out a Scarlet Letter than to take the time to think and understand.
